Ensure family law legal professionals have updated, regular training on domestic abuse
1 in 5 adults experience domestic abuse in their lifetime? 1 in 5. You will most likely know someone who has been a victim to it or is experiencing it right now. These people deserve to be surrounded by people who understand what they're going through and treat them with compassion.
Victims of domestic abuse are often subjected to secondary victimisation. This occurs when a victim of crime feels they have been subjected to inadequate, insensitive or inappropriate responses and practices by criminal justice and social agencies that compound their original trauma. Such actions are not limited to overt actions that are consciously undertaken. They can also include unintentional practices by legal staff who do not harbour ill will or bias. Judges are often dismissive of victims and do not want to hear about detailed abuse. This case hardening makes their approach perfunctory.
Article 8 in the UNDHR states that "Everyone has the right to an effective remedy by the competent national tribunals for acts violating the fundamental rights granted him by the constitution or by law." By allowing secondary victimisation to occur we are not fully respecting a basic human right.
According to the Guardian (https://www.theguardian.com/law/2024/oct/08/family...) - "Judges in the family courts are using victim-blaming and gender based language towards domestic abuse survivours". This highlights why mandatory, updated training is required for all legal professionals who handle domestic abuse cases because if it isn't, then domestic abuse survivours will trust the judicial system less and less and so will the public. Secondary victimisation makes the victim feel unseen and unheard by a system which is meant to support them and can often make them lose faith in the justice system. This is especially important since victims of domestic abuse can often face further harassment by the perpetrator after the case.
This is why we believe family law professionals and judges need to receive updated, regular training on domestic abuse and how to handle domestic abuse cases and we believe it should be enforced by the Government.
Updates
March 19, 2025
The feedback received throughout this campaign highlights a pervasive frustration regarding the current state of family court proceedings. I am currently compiling your experiences to demonstrate the systemic nature of these issues to relevant legal oversight committees.
March 19, 2025
The momentum behind this initiative reflects a profound public commitment to reforming how family courts address domestic abuse. Witnessing this collective determination proves that the necessity for updated professional training is widely understood. I appreciate the resolve shown by everyone who has lent their name to this cause.
9 Comments
The courts are a nightmare. They treat you like you are the problem instead of the victim. About time they learned how to actually handle these cases.
My ex twisted everything in court and the judge just sat there looking bored. Nobody should have to go through that when they are already suffering. Needs changing ASAP.
Hi, we understand this is also a huge issue that many boys face and we acknowledge that many boys struggle with this and agree that more attention needs to be focused on this issue. However, our petition is focused on how legal professionals need to get updated and mandatory training so that domestic abuse survivors do not have to face further victimisation. We understand both genders experience domestic abuse and our main goal is to ensure legal professionals are provided with a good standard of training so that the survivors have a positive experience in court.
the legal system is broken. lawyers have no idea how trauma works and they make it 10x worse for everyone involved. hope this helps fix it.
Boys need more help since there is NO and NONE programs for domestic abuse against boys by their mothers and other women. Boy's get raped by their mother and teachers and the women do not even get sent to jail, get probation or less than 2 years. Boys raped by teacher at age 12, she gets prison, and he gets court order to pay child support for a child he could not consent to conceive via sex with the teacher. Help boys first with funded government programs, stop othering boy victimized by women. A 9 to 15 year old cannot consent and "did not want it" when a 20 year old women GROOMS and RAPES the boy.
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As someone dealing with this! It’s great to know people care!!!❤️❤️
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Ensure family law legal professionals have updated, regular training on domestic abuse
1 in 5 adults experience domestic abuse in their lifetime? 1 in 5. You will most likely know someone who has been a victim to it or is experiencing it right now. These people deserve to be surrounded by people who understand what they're going through and treat them with compassion.
Victims of domestic abuse are often subjected to secondary victimisation. This occurs when a victim of crime feels they have been subjected to inadequate, insensitive or inappropriate responses and practices by criminal justice and social agencies that compound their original trauma. Such actions are not limited to overt actions that are consciously undertaken. They can also include unintentional practices by legal staff who do not harbour ill will or bias. Judges are often dismissive of victims and do not want to hear about detailed abuse. This case hardening makes their approach perfunctory.
Article 8 in the UNDHR states that "Everyone has the right to an effective remedy by the competent national tribunals for acts violating the fundamental rights granted him by the constitution or by law." By allowing secondary victimisation to occur we are not fully respecting a basic human right.
According to the Guardian (https://www.theguardian.com/law/2024/oct/08/family...) - "Judges in the family courts are using victim-blaming and gender based language towards domestic abuse survivours". This highlights why mandatory, updated training is required for all legal professionals who handle domestic abuse cases because if it isn't, then domestic abuse survivours will trust the judicial system less and less and so will the public. Secondary victimisation makes the victim feel unseen and unheard by a system which is meant to support them and can often make them lose faith in the justice system. This is especially important since victims of domestic abuse can often face further harassment by the perpetrator after the case.
This is why we believe family law professionals and judges need to receive updated, regular training on domestic abuse and how to handle domestic abuse cases and we believe it should be enforced by the Government.
Updates
March 19, 2025
The feedback received throughout this campaign highlights a pervasive frustration regarding the current state of family court proceedings. I am currently compiling your experiences to demonstrate the systemic nature of these issues to relevant legal oversight committees.
March 19, 2025
The momentum behind this initiative reflects a profound public commitment to reforming how family courts address domestic abuse. Witnessing this collective determination proves that the necessity for updated professional training is widely understood. I appreciate the resolve shown by everyone who has lent their name to this cause.
9 Comments
YES! So much victim blaming goes on in family law. Glad someone is shouting about this finally! 👍👍
The courts are a nightmare. They treat you like you are the problem instead of the victim. About time they learned how to actually handle these cases.
My ex twisted everything in court and the judge just sat there looking bored. Nobody should have to go through that when they are already suffering. Needs changing ASAP.
Hi, we understand this is also a huge issue that many boys face and we acknowledge that many boys struggle with this and agree that more attention needs to be focused on this issue. However, our petition is focused on how legal professionals need to get updated and mandatory training so that domestic abuse survivors do not have to face further victimisation. We understand both genders experience domestic abuse and our main goal is to ensure legal professionals are provided with a good standard of training so that the survivors have a positive experience in court.
the legal system is broken. lawyers have no idea how trauma works and they make it 10x worse for everyone involved. hope this helps fix it.
Boys need more help since there is NO and NONE programs for domestic abuse against boys by their mothers and other women. Boy's get raped by their mother and teachers and the women do not even get sent to jail, get probation or less than 2 years. Boys raped by teacher at age 12, she gets prison, and he gets court order to pay child support for a child he could not consent to conceive via sex with the teacher. Help boys first with funded government programs, stop othering boy victimized by women. A 9 to 15 year old cannot consent and "did not want it" when a 20 year old women GROOMS and RAPES the boy.
!!
As someone dealing with this! It’s great to know people care!!!❤️❤️
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YES! So much victim blaming goes on in family law. Glad someone is shouting about this finally! 👍👍