To stop the Just Wait abstinence program from being at Bearden High School.
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Alexander
12 years ago
It's a very smart approach, those who restrict often find that youth will do it anyhow.. why not teach the how to do it safe and proper. over 80% of teens have sex atleast once, let's amke it safe and proper
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Anonymous
12 years ago
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Equality! As a product of Bearden's completely ineffective educational system(at least for myself), I realize that this only worked for a small percentage of people who were already scared Christians to start with. However, teenagers especially need to know everything there is about STD's but they are going to tune everyone out who is going to tell them what to do. DO NOT tell an angsty teenager what to do if you expect positive results. Period.
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Stephanie Craig
12 years ago
As a citizen of this Country I understand the importance of separation of church and state, but as a student who has gone those very sex ed talks that were presented by the Just Wait program I can tell you that never once did they mention Jesus or their religious beliefs, while yes I do remember them stressing that waiting for marriage was the best way to avoid an unwanted pregnancy or STD. I am not saying that the Just Wait program is totally perfect, because like anything created by humans it definitely has its flaws, but to say that the BEST way to prevent teen pregnancy and the spread of STDs is to teach tell them it's okay as long as they "do it safely" is honestly a very unwise approach. As a Christ follower I know that not everyone believes or practices the things that do and that is okay as long as you stay true to yourself. I don't think that anyone's personal beliefs or religion should be force fed to anyone, however I do believe that students should be learning the whole truth about such topics as sex, drinking alcohol, and doing drugs. We should learn that while not all of those activities are necessarily bad things, however that doing those things come with serious responsibilities and consequences which can lead to poor decision making later on down the road. I personally wish that they would spend more time talking about the psychological side of sex and just physical contact within itself, because it is just as much of an emotional experience as it is a physical if not even more so emotional and that has actually been proven by science. The fact is that regardless of your personal beliefs or religion, sex is a big deal for both of the people involved and should be held to a much higher standard and respected much more than it is in today's society. As Christians we should not be afraid of the incredible gift of sex that God created, but we should also not paint it as a sort of weird strict function that was only made for marriage. While I do firmly
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Anonymous
12 years ago
Huzzah!
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Eden Batista
12 years ago
Thank god. Hopefully this will spark something.
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Makena Marsh
12 years ago
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We have this at my school too. Many teenagers don't even know basic facts about birth control because we aren't taught. We are instead taught that having sex before marriage decreases our worth as individuals.
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Beecher Daniel
12 years ago
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This is completely ridiculous. Things of this nature should not be allowed in our schools. School and Church are two things which should not be put together
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Staley McCartney
12 years ago
This is an uphill battle, but someone's gotta fight it!
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anonymous dick
12 years ago
So sick of christianity.
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anonymous dick
12 years ago
get jesus out of education. no time for that nonsense
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Forrest Dyer
12 years ago
Just wait is more concerned with upholding their ideologies than promoting good sexual health
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Megan Coble
12 years ago
So brave to against the abstinence norm of this society.
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Michael Judge
12 years ago
Ignorance is not a good foundation for success. I'm all for it!
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Caitlin Wade
12 years ago
This needs to stop everywhere.
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Molly Yerger
12 years ago
Wow. Agreed.
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Carol Ann Stelter
12 years ago
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Not to mention the slut shaming, sexist take on sex they teach and their open views on abortion.
It's a very smart approach, those who restrict often find that youth will do it anyhow.. why not teach the how to do it safe and proper. over 80% of teens have sex atleast once, let's amke it safe and proper
Equality! As a product of Bearden's completely ineffective educational system(at least for myself), I realize that this only worked for a small percentage of people who were already scared Christians to start with. However, teenagers especially need to know everything there is about STD's but they are going to tune everyone out who is going to tell them what to do. DO NOT tell an angsty teenager what to do if you expect positive results. Period.
As a citizen of this Country I understand the importance of separation of church and state, but as a student who has gone those very sex ed talks that were presented by the Just Wait program I can tell you that never once did they mention Jesus or their religious beliefs, while yes I do remember them stressing that waiting for marriage was the best way to avoid an unwanted pregnancy or STD. I am not saying that the Just Wait program is totally perfect, because like anything created by humans it definitely has its flaws, but to say that the BEST way to prevent teen pregnancy and the spread of STDs is to teach tell them it's okay as long as they "do it safely" is honestly a very unwise approach. As a Christ follower I know that not everyone believes or practices the things that do and that is okay as long as you stay true to yourself. I don't think that anyone's personal beliefs or religion should be force fed to anyone, however I do believe that students should be learning the whole truth about such topics as sex, drinking alcohol, and doing drugs. We should learn that while not all of those activities are necessarily bad things, however that doing those things come with serious responsibilities and consequences which can lead to poor decision making later on down the road. I personally wish that they would spend more time talking about the psychological side of sex and just physical contact within itself, because it is just as much of an emotional experience as it is a physical if not even more so emotional and that has actually been proven by science. The fact is that regardless of your personal beliefs or religion, sex is a big deal for both of the people involved and should be held to a much higher standard and respected much more than it is in today's society. As Christians we should not be afraid of the incredible gift of sex that God created, but we should also not paint it as a sort of weird strict function that was only made for marriage. While I do firmly
Huzzah!
Thank god. Hopefully this will spark something.
We have this at my school too. Many teenagers don't even know basic facts about birth control because we aren't taught. We are instead taught that having sex before marriage decreases our worth as individuals.
This is completely ridiculous. Things of this nature should not be allowed in our schools. School and Church are two things which should not be put together
This is an uphill battle, but someone's gotta fight it!
So sick of christianity.
get jesus out of education. no time for that nonsense
Just wait is more concerned with upholding their ideologies than promoting good sexual health
So brave to against the abstinence norm of this society.
Ignorance is not a good foundation for success. I'm all for it!
This needs to stop everywhere.
Wow. Agreed.
Not to mention the slut shaming, sexist take on sex they teach and their open views on abortion.
I like chicken.
Ugh YES
This is long overdue.
I always thought this was a load of crap