bill 33 is dead and we actually won. parents get to keep making the right choices for their own kids and i couldnt be happier about the result. thanks for staying with me on this one.
A private member's bill that would give grandparents in Ontario better acces to their grandchildren is one step closer to becoming law.
Bill 33, if it became law, would require the courts in Ontario to consider grandparents in a custody case involving divorce, seperation and death. Moreover, it effectively grants grandparents court-ordered visitation rights to grandkids on the sole basis that they are grandparents.
While this bill may be well-intended, with such broad and indefinative language, it simply opens the door for any grandparent to seek legal rights to their grandchildren without taking into consideration the legitimate reason some parents have for maintaining a seperation - such as abuse, addictions, manipulation and/or controlling behaviour.
With such phrases as, ""A person who has custody of a child shall not unreasonably place obstacles to personal relations between the child and the child's grandparents." It puts the onus on the parent to demonstrate that their personal decision is not "unreasonably" placing an obstacle to relations with the grandparent.
While I agree that ideally grandparents are beneficial to a child's development and it does "take a village to raise a child" - the rights should ultimately still be that of the parent to decide who lives in this village and participates in the child's life.
Grandparents become grandparents just because their children make a decision to have kids. It actually has nothing to do with the grandparents, or their actions. So "rights" shouldn't be bestowed upon them simply because of that. A parent's decision to do something with his/her life should never grant automatic "rights" to his/her mother and/or father.
I do not think that this piece of legislation is a valuable one; while the motivation behind its proposal may be justified, the possible results could be devastating to some families, families truly undeserving of such effects.
Please help me put a stop to Bill 33!
I am signing because i was helping my grandsons mom with herself when she had no help for my grandson and his 2 sisters. Now she will not allow me to see my grandson. I want to be involved in my grandsons life.
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Lianne Christian
9 years ago
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As grandparents who just want to love and spend time with their grandchildren.. without the constant threat of retaliation because of a broken relationship between parents. We need a calm in the storm. Signed!!!
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Anonymous
9 years ago
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Anonymous
Feb 07, 2016 Being a Grandparent is a privilege NOT a right.
Sorry whom ever you are!! You must not be a grandparent. Hopefully one day you will, and you will not be allowed to see you grandbabies. Then you will reverse yoyr rrmarks. If the grandparents are good people, its our RIGHTS to be involved with our geandbabies lives. I love my grandbabies more then life itself.
J
Jaclyn B
9 years ago
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This law would not benefit anyone except grandparents who do not know their boundaries.
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Lisa mccullough
9 years ago
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There is a reason why no access is being granted maybe. The parenting in the first place
K
Kathy Kerr
10 years ago
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Since the separation in May 2015 we have not seen our grandchildren. We are being punished, as well
as the kids. Our hearts are broken. The grandchildren were our world! Now the world has ended! Please bring them back!
T
Terry H
9 years ago
Let's get this done so we all can stop the bickering and B.S. the world has become with social media. And some of us old school grandparents want to see our grandchildren
H
Heather Farrell
9 years ago
I believe that grandparents should be able to see there grandchildren always.
bill 33 is dead and we actually won. parents get to keep making the right choices for their own kids and i couldnt be happier about the result. thanks for staying with me on this one.
A private member's bill that would give grandparents in Ontario better acces to their grandchildren is one step closer to becoming law.
Bill 33, if it became law, would require the courts in Ontario to consider grandparents in a custody case involving divorce, seperation and death. Moreover, it effectively grants grandparents court-ordered visitation rights to grandkids on the sole basis that they are grandparents.
While this bill may be well-intended, with such broad and indefinative language, it simply opens the door for any grandparent to seek legal rights to their grandchildren without taking into consideration the legitimate reason some parents have for maintaining a seperation - such as abuse, addictions, manipulation and/or controlling behaviour.
With such phrases as, ""A person who has custody of a child shall not unreasonably place obstacles to personal relations between the child and the child's grandparents." It puts the onus on the parent to demonstrate that their personal decision is not "unreasonably" placing an obstacle to relations with the grandparent.
While I agree that ideally grandparents are beneficial to a child's development and it does "take a village to raise a child" - the rights should ultimately still be that of the parent to decide who lives in this village and participates in the child's life.
Grandparents become grandparents just because their children make a decision to have kids. It actually has nothing to do with the grandparents, or their actions. So "rights" shouldn't be bestowed upon them simply because of that. A parent's decision to do something with his/her life should never grant automatic "rights" to his/her mother and/or father.
I do not think that this piece of legislation is a valuable one; while the motivation behind its proposal may be justified, the possible results could be devastating to some families, families truly undeserving of such effects.
Please help me put a stop to Bill 33!
I am signing because i was helping my grandsons mom with herself when she had no help for my grandson and his 2 sisters. Now she will not allow me to see my grandson. I want to be involved in my grandsons life.
L
Lianne Christian
9 years ago
Featured
As grandparents who just want to love and spend time with their grandchildren.. without the constant threat of retaliation because of a broken relationship between parents. We need a calm in the storm. Signed!!!
A
Anonymous
9 years ago
Featured
Anonymous
Feb 07, 2016 Being a Grandparent is a privilege NOT a right.
Sorry whom ever you are!! You must not be a grandparent. Hopefully one day you will, and you will not be allowed to see you grandbabies. Then you will reverse yoyr rrmarks. If the grandparents are good people, its our RIGHTS to be involved with our geandbabies lives. I love my grandbabies more then life itself.
J
Jaclyn B
9 years ago
Featured
This law would not benefit anyone except grandparents who do not know their boundaries.
L
Lisa mccullough
9 years ago
Featured
There is a reason why no access is being granted maybe. The parenting in the first place
K
Kathy Kerr
10 years ago
Featured
Since the separation in May 2015 we have not seen our grandchildren. We are being punished, as well
as the kids. Our hearts are broken. The grandchildren were our world! Now the world has ended! Please bring them back!
T
Terry H
9 years ago
Let's get this done so we all can stop the bickering and B.S. the world has become with social media. And some of us old school grandparents want to see our grandchildren
H
Heather Farrell
9 years ago
I believe that grandparents should be able to see there grandchildren always.
I am signing because i was helping my grandsons mom with herself when she had no help for my grandson and his 2 sisters. Now she will not allow me to see my grandson. I want to be involved in my grandsons life.