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The absurd ban on my father's memorial has been overturned and they finally granted permission for the design. Those bureaucrats at the Chancellor's office were wrong to deny us for this long but our persistence forced their hand. We won this fight for Derek and I appreciate everyone who stood …

January 22, 2011

Permission to be Granted for the late D Howard's Memorial

Permission to be Granted for the late D Howard's Memorial

🏆 Won — 430 supporters Verified

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Started by Anonymous 15 years, 8 months ago
In March 2010 my father, Derek Howard, passed away. He was buried in Hindringham Churchyard in April 2010. In May 2010, regulations changed (full information in links - see point 20). Prior to this, many pictures within reason were permitted. Now you are only allowed religious icons, or if the passed served the Army/Navy, their regiment/squadron logo is permitted with the MOD's permission. As many will know who knew my father, he passionately supported speedway throughout his life; it was an important part of who he was. We proposed this design, and have had it refused: 


I wrote to the Chancellor explaining the circumstances and my fathers passion for the sport and it was refused, despite the support of Hindringham's Vicar & Churchwardens. We are now appealing officially at additional cost. I hope this petition may show the support we have. Please feel free to pass this on, all support is much appreciated. We hope it will make a difference.


By signing this petition, I confirm that I fully support this and believe that this memorial is in no way inappropriate.

(NB. After signing you are taken to a 'donations' page. Your signature has already been recorded; you do NOT have to donate to ipetitions.com. It is optional.)


Update 05/03/11, below letter now received. Appeal refused:

Updates

Reached 250 supporters

January 8, 2011

January 7, 2011

The bureaucrats at the Church of England are still ignoring us but we are clawing our way toward 250 signatures. Blast this link out to your social media circles right now so we can force them to look at the reality of my father's legacy.

January 6, 2011

We hit 100 signatures today. Those bureaucrats at the Church need to realize they cannot just ignore a grieving family while dismissing the local leaders who actually know my father's community.

January 6, 2011

The bureaucrats in charge of this churchyard are rejecting my father's memorial again despite clear support from the local clergy. They want us to believe this speedway tribute is somehow inappropriate but their refusal proves they are only interested in enforcing rigid rules over human sentiment. I am not backing down because they expect us to just go away quietly.

Reached 100 supporters

January 5, 2011

6 Comments

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Sarah Morgan
15 years ago Featured

This is just heartless. It was his life passion and it represents who he was. Let the family have their peace.

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Julie Bennett
15 years ago Featured

poor man. speedway was his life and he deserves to be remembered for what he loved. shame on them for saying no.

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Tracey Fox
15 years ago Featured

Thinking of you all. Hope this gets sorted soon.

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Mark Werner
15 years ago Featured

Ridiculous red tape. Let them honor him how they want.

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Kevin Jackson
15 years ago Featured

common sense people. its a headstone not a billboard in times square!!

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Dave Tan
15 years ago Featured

The church needs to get with the times. Totally ridiculous to deny this.