My sister-in-law had been battling cancer for over a year, so we knew
the end could come at any time. I finally got the call that they had
rushed her to ER on Tuesday and did not expect her to make it, so I
rushed out of work to gather my family and make the 2 hour drive to
Quincy, IL to see her before she passed away. The hospital ended up
transferring her to ICU and I had to leave my husband behind with his
family because I was supposed to be at work on Wednesday and had already
asked to be off for a different reason but was told that the office was
too short handed and there were no extra people that would be available
to cover my absence. Before I arrived back in Columbia I got the call
that the priest had been called in to read last rites and my husband
really wanted me by his side when his sister passed. I called my
supervisor and was again told we were too short handed, but if I wanted
to contact my co-worker & she would agree to cancel her appointment
and come to work then I would be granted the next day off. My
sister-in-law passed at 3:55 a.m. on Wednesday morning and thanks to my
co-worker I was able to be there with family when it happened. Later in
the day I contacted HR and was told that sister-in-law is not listed in
the policy for bereavement pay, but that if my supervisor would approve
the absences I could use vacation. So, I had to use my vacation time
for pay on Wednesday as well. There are many families in which
brother-in-laws and sister-in-laws are very close and I can not believe
that relationship is not in the bereavement policy for MU. I was raised
an only child and all my family live too far away to visit quickly, so
my husband's immediate family has become my main family that I interact
with on a regular basis and because of the MU policy I can not be with
that family for the days following the death of my sister-in-law since
many of my co-workers had previously asked off for different reasons
including the holidays. I am circulating this petition in hopes to get the current policy amended to include sister-in-law and brother-in-law. Please sign if you support this change.
This is completely heartless. People are not robots and life happens. Mizzou needs to update this policy because family is family regardless of what HR says.
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Mike Chopra
14 years ago
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so sorry for your loss. terrible that you had to scramble to be there for your own husband while management worried about coverage. change the rules.
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My sister-in-law had been battling cancer for over a year, so we knew
the end could come at any time. I finally got the call that they had
rushed her to ER on Tuesday and did not expect her to make it, so I
rushed out of work to gather my family and make the 2 hour drive to
Quincy, IL to see her before she passed away. The hospital ended up
transferring her to ICU and I had to leave my husband behind with his
family because I was supposed to be at work on Wednesday and had already
asked to be off for a different reason but was told that the office was
too short handed and there were no extra people that would be available
to cover my absence. Before I arrived back in Columbia I got the call
that the priest had been called in to read last rites and my husband
really wanted me by his side when his sister passed. I called my
supervisor and was again told we were too short handed, but if I wanted
to contact my co-worker & she would agree to cancel her appointment
and come to work then I would be granted the next day off. My
sister-in-law passed at 3:55 a.m. on Wednesday morning and thanks to my
co-worker I was able to be there with family when it happened. Later in
the day I contacted HR and was told that sister-in-law is not listed in
the policy for bereavement pay, but that if my supervisor would approve
the absences I could use vacation. So, I had to use my vacation time
for pay on Wednesday as well. There are many families in which
brother-in-laws and sister-in-laws are very close and I can not believe
that relationship is not in the bereavement policy for MU. I was raised
an only child and all my family live too far away to visit quickly, so
my husband's immediate family has become my main family that I interact
with on a regular basis and because of the MU policy I can not be with
that family for the days following the death of my sister-in-law since
many of my co-workers had previously asked off for different reasons
including the holidays. I am circulating this petition in hopes to get the current policy amended to include sister-in-law and brother-in-law. Please sign if you support this change.
This is completely heartless. People are not robots and life happens. Mizzou needs to update this policy because family is family regardless of what HR says.
M
Mike Chopra
14 years ago
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so sorry for your loss. terrible that you had to scramble to be there for your own husband while management worried about coverage. change the rules.
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This is completely heartless. People are not robots and life happens. Mizzou needs to update this policy because family is family regardless of what HR says.