I Deborah Flowers am the creator of this petition ‘Mothers Know Best’/For Beth
My daughter Bethany Flowers died as a result of being taken to hospital eight times in fifteen days with breathing difficulties. If the medics had taken my daughter and myself seriously rather than a rushed diagnosis and dismissing what we had told them, Bethany may still be living today.These medics may be doctors of all experience and years of training but when a mother is insistent and consistent that their child is ill and keeps on returning to the hospital with the exact same symptoms it should be taken seriously, a mother knows her child better than any doctor no matter how many certificates or letters behind their name they may have. The lives of our children are the most precious possession a parent will ever have. The lives of our children can be saved if the child and parent are heard and not just listened to. This needs to be made a law and stop sending seriously ill children home time after time to suffer unnecessarily and basically left to die through misdiagnosis, lack of beds, time and care. This is not an acceptable level of care from our NHS.
Action needs to be taken now and stop other parents going through what my family and many others have done so. I urge every mother, father, sister, brother and every member of our families to read and sign. I ask you to visit Bethany’s website and read my draft of How Well Do You Know Your Child, you read and see if it is worthwhile, you decide if the basis of this petition is right or wrong. Let this be my most precious daughter’s legacy, help us to help save the life of a child, that child may be your child next. For further information please feel free to google Bethany Flowers, you will find numerous links connected to her passing, spine chilling and so wrong.
I have finalized the formal letter to the hospital trust outlining the specific failures in Bethany's care. Legal counsel is now reviewing this documentation to ensure our proposed policy changes are presented effectively during the upcoming inquiry.
December 15, 2010
The growth of this petition proves that the current standard of care is unacceptable to the public. I am currently coordinating with legal advisors to draft the formal legislative proposal required for our next meeting with health officials.
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Emma Hayes
15 years ago
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Heartbreaking. Its scary how many times this happens in our hospitals.
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David Cox
15 years ago
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We need to fix this system before more families are destroyed. So sorry you had to go through this nightmare.
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Mark Sullivan
15 years ago
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My wife had the exact same experience with our son. They kept saying it was just a cold until it got way worse. Listen to the parents!
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Linda Acosta
15 years ago
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ABSOLUTELY. Mothers know their children better than any doctor who spends 5 minutes with them in a room. RIP Bethany.
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Sarah Lloyd
15 years ago
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This breaks my heart. Doctors really need to stop brushing off mothers when we know something is wrong with our own kids. So sorry for your loss.
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Jason Ortiz
15 years ago
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This is so wrong. A child shouldnt have to die because staff was too lazy to listen properly. Change is needed now.
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I Deborah Flowers am the creator of this petition ‘Mothers Know Best’/For Beth
My daughter Bethany Flowers died as a result of being taken to hospital eight times in fifteen days with breathing difficulties. If the medics had taken my daughter and myself seriously rather than a rushed diagnosis and dismissing what we had told them, Bethany may still be living today.These medics may be doctors of all experience and years of training but when a mother is insistent and consistent that their child is ill and keeps on returning to the hospital with the exact same symptoms it should be taken seriously, a mother knows her child better than any doctor no matter how many certificates or letters behind their name they may have. The lives of our children are the most precious possession a parent will ever have. The lives of our children can be saved if the child and parent are heard and not just listened to. This needs to be made a law and stop sending seriously ill children home time after time to suffer unnecessarily and basically left to die through misdiagnosis, lack of beds, time and care. This is not an acceptable level of care from our NHS.
Action needs to be taken now and stop other parents going through what my family and many others have done so. I urge every mother, father, sister, brother and every member of our families to read and sign. I ask you to visit Bethany’s website and read my draft of How Well Do You Know Your Child, you read and see if it is worthwhile, you decide if the basis of this petition is right or wrong. Let this be my most precious daughter’s legacy, help us to help save the life of a child, that child may be your child next. For further information please feel free to google Bethany Flowers, you will find numerous links connected to her passing, spine chilling and so wrong.
I have finalized the formal letter to the hospital trust outlining the specific failures in Bethany's care. Legal counsel is now reviewing this documentation to ensure our proposed policy changes are presented effectively during the upcoming inquiry.
December 15, 2010
The growth of this petition proves that the current standard of care is unacceptable to the public. I am currently coordinating with legal advisors to draft the formal legislative proposal required for our next meeting with health officials.
6 Comments
E
Emma Hayes
15 years ago
Featured
Heartbreaking. Its scary how many times this happens in our hospitals.
D
David Cox
15 years ago
Featured
We need to fix this system before more families are destroyed. So sorry you had to go through this nightmare.
M
Mark Sullivan
15 years ago
Featured
My wife had the exact same experience with our son. They kept saying it was just a cold until it got way worse. Listen to the parents!
L
Linda Acosta
15 years ago
Featured
ABSOLUTELY. Mothers know their children better than any doctor who spends 5 minutes with them in a room. RIP Bethany.
S
Sarah Lloyd
15 years ago
Featured
This breaks my heart. Doctors really need to stop brushing off mothers when we know something is wrong with our own kids. So sorry for your loss.
J
Jason Ortiz
15 years ago
Featured
This is so wrong. A child shouldnt have to die because staff was too lazy to listen properly. Change is needed now.
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Heartbreaking. Its scary how many times this happens in our hospitals.