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The courts finally saw reason and dropped the case against my friend so he can finally be a father to his son again. Seeing the legal system turn back from this overreach feels like a massive weight has lifted off our shoulders. Thank you for helping me prove that discipline …

October 20, 2020

Spanking your child is not abuse

Spanking your child is not abuse

🏆 Won — 98 supporters Verified

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Started by Anonymous 19 years ago
I was, as many of you probably were, spanked with a belt by my parents when I was misbehaving, just as their parents did to them. I have turned out to be a courteous, respectful person and I am sure that the majority of you have as well. A dear friend of mine is being destroyed by the local media for spanking his child with a belt. He is not a bad person and would never abuse his son. He is a smart, caring, and responsible father that wants nothing but the best for his son. His son was misbehaving in school and failing. His father did not see any change in his son\'s actions by taking away his video games or television privileges, so as a last resort he decided to take the belt out and spank him. Now he cannot see his son and has to go through the child services and the courts. He has to go through all this because of a spanking. Please sign this petition, this will be printed out and given to the courts to show that spanking your child is not the same as child abuse and that we stand behind him as a good father trying to do what is best for his son.

Updates

October 8, 2020

I have been reading your stories about how you were raised and it confirms what I already know about my friend. The courts should recognize that different families have different ways of teaching respect. We are preparing to present these names to show that a firm hand does not make someone a criminal.

October 8, 2020

Seeing this level of support for my friend reminds me that so many families understand the struggle of raising a child to be respectful. It is a relief to know that others see the difference between discipline and abuse.

6 Comments

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Dylan Pruitt
6 years ago Featured

people think spanking is abuse when it really is one of the most effective ways of discipline

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Dylan Pruitt
6 years ago Featured

people think spanking is abuse when it really is one of the most effective ways of discipline

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Dylan Pruitt
6 years ago Featured

people think spanking is abuse when it really is one of the most effective ways of discipline

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Terry Ward
9 years ago Featured

Children need discipline and speaking calmly to them isn't enough. When a child misbehaves and they know they won't be punished but instead spoken to they will continue because they heard it all before. Spanking is something I was more scared of as a kid and deserved every time I got them. Stop this liberal "child abuse" bs

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Sarah Mason
18 years ago Featured

this is ridiculous. kids these days have no respect because parents are afraid to actually discipline them. leave this father alone.

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Mike Coleman
18 years ago Featured

my dad gave me a belt when i acted up and i turned out just fine. society has gone soft.