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Second Chance for Dads

Second Chance for Dads

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Started by Anonymous 14 years, 7 months ago
Not every father who relinquishes parental rights should be legally bound forever to the status of not having a familial relationship with his children. In situations where a father terminated his rights because of a condition of life he could not control, legal consideration should be given to significant positive changes in that father's situation that would affect his ability to again exercise paternal rights. Paper does not destroy lineage. There is no social fact written on paper that should not be open to review. Even a condemed criminal can be reviewed for parole, yet every day, our society allows the "eternal" severing of parental rights. Yet, when a child is 18, that child can, if he/or she wishes, accept a person whose rights have been terminated back as a parent. It does not make sense. Certainly, there are situations where parental rights shuld be severed. An abusive person should not parent a child. But what about those situations where conditions have changed? The parent who gave up his rights is no longer the drug addict, the indegent, the dead-beat-dad etc. The child is older and not adopted, and longs for the missing parent who, under duress, signed a piece of paper that he felt at one time he had to sign. Why is a piece of paper so powerful? Lives change. People grow and improve and overcome drug addictions and illnesses and abject poverty. Individual case review can present evidence that shows proof when a parent should have a second chance. There is no substitute for a father's love to a child. Children don't stop loving a parent they once knew as loving. Is every case really in the child's best interest to be "eternal"? Or, should a child too be given a second chance to have that parent's love and support again? Sign this petition so that deserving parents and children can be reunited IF circumstances warrant by individual, case review.

Updates

April 26, 2013

I really thought this might just be a small thing that died in the draft folder, but looking at how many people showed up today is actually kind of overwhelming. It means so much to see that others understand why a piece of paper should not define a human being forever, and my brain is already racing with ideas on who I need to contact next to make this push actually mean something in the real world.

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Lisa Crawford
14 years ago Featured

My ex had issues but he is a completely different person now. Our daughter misses him every day. This law is cruel.

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Mike Holmes
14 years ago Featured

People change. My brother worked hard to get his life together and he deserves to be a father to his kids again. Stop punishing him for mistakes he made years ago.

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Sarah Reed
14 years ago Featured

Ridiculous that the system writes people off forever. If someone has turned their life around why not let them try again? The kids need their dads.

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David McKenzie
14 years ago Featured

Should be based on the person today not who they were five years ago. Fix the law.

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Jason Das
14 years ago Featured

THE SYSTEM IS BROKEN. Give these guys a path to redemption if they actually fixed their lives.

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Karen Ortiz
14 years ago Featured

Exactly. Everyone deserves a second chance if they honestly worked for it.

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