Thank you Bob...
Thank you for taking care of your stepchildren. One day, they will thank you for paying their medical bills and getting them what they need. I am sorry that you have to go through this system with your wife. PLEASE, keep this petition going and keep sharing.....
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Christine Miller
· petition starter
11 years ago
Thank you Bob...
Thank you for taking care of your stepchildren. One day, they will thank you for paying their medical bills and getting them what they need. I am sorry that you have to go through this system with your wife. PLEASE, keep this petition going and keep sharing.....
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Christine Miller
· petition starter
11 years ago
YES!!! It does Amy! Thank you for joining our fight in doing just that. Don't be quiet....use your pen, your typing fingers and your mouth that was made to advocate! And Amy....keep sharing and getting others to sign the petition. THANK YOU.
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Christine Miller
· petition starter
11 years ago
Thank you Lori. Yes, it definately does. Got any ideas on how to fix it?
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Christine Miller
· petition starter
11 years ago
It must be so difficult for grandparents to see their child and grandchildren go through these things. Thank you to all of the grandmas and grandpas that take over and help.
PLEASE Pamela...keep sharing the petition and thank you so much for signing.....
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Christine Miller
· petition starter
11 years ago
YES! Thank you Jane!!!! Please keep sharing and helping us fight the fight!!!
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Christine Miller
· petition starter
11 years ago
Shannon,
Thank you. Yes, I do not know any person that does not agree that the system needs to change. I tend to think of it this way. If the custodial parent suddenly got up and just left the home.....what would happen to the children? The non-custodial parent gets up, leaves and gives no care or responsiblity. It is then near impossible to get them to help. Why do so many non custodial parents do this?
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Christine Miller
· petition starter
11 years ago
Thank you Karen. You would think that comment would be common sense. Please keep sharing the petition...thank you so much for signing.
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Christine Miller
· petition starter
11 years ago
Yes, I can see how frustrated would be a understatement Jennifer. I am not sure of the laws from state to state. What would be your suggestions to our NJ government to make the system better?
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Christine Miller
· petition starter
11 years ago
Thank you Barbara. You feel the way alot of parents do. Please continue to share the petition and get signatures...it is the only way we can change a system...if we speak in numbers.
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Christine Miller
· petition starter
11 years ago
It is, the system is unfair Dana. Thank you so much for signing and please keep sharing the petition....
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Christine Miller
· petition starter
11 years ago
It is. The system is very unfair. Thank you for signing Dana...and please keep it going...
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Christine Miller
· petition starter
11 years ago
Thank you Barbara! That is actually a very good idea and we will use it in our report to the legislators and governor. Please share the petition and keep it going :-)
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Christine Miller
· petition starter
11 years ago
I am sorry Christina. Thank you for sharing and for signing the petition....hopefully, we can make changes.
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Christine Miller
· petition starter
11 years ago
I am so sorry Christina. Thank you for signing and please continue to share....
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Christine Miller
· petition starter
11 years ago
I am sorry Melissa. Does dad see his kids at all? I understand that he is on food stamps. Is this because he has not been able to work? Is that why he has not filed taxes?
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Christine Miller
· petition starter
11 years ago
Sid,
Quite frankly, it doesn't help a parent to work. It is for parents that just don't think they should pay support. It is one of the few things NJ can do. It is not a great solution, but it is all they got. Unfortunately, our system has little enforcement that they can do to recoup arrears and child support. Currently, the following can be used as enforcement methods:
-loss of license
-loss of professional license
- garnishment of wages
-recoup through taxes or lottery winnings
- suspension of passport
-credit bureau reporting
-enforecment hearing and possible bench warrant
- imprisonment
None of them are great.....but, right now it is the only consequences NJ can do. IF you have better suggestions, a new way to revamp the child support system or a idea....PLEASE let us know......
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Christine Miller
· petition starter
11 years ago
I am sorry to hear this Melody. Is their dad working?
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Melody buske
11 years ago
i fight with my probation worker every 2 weeks to enforce court order and never happens. Meanwhile my kids suffer and go without while their father goes on vacation with the new wife. I set up my child support account with probation so I would have enforcement when needed but that is not the case here. You have to fight with child support to fight for child support. Where is the justice in that?
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Sid Pawar
11 years ago
How does taking the driver's license help the parent pay the child support?
Thank you Bob... Thank you for taking care of your stepchildren. One day, they will thank you for paying their medical bills and getting them what they need. I am sorry that you have to go through this system with your wife. PLEASE, keep this petition going and keep sharing.....
Thank you Bob... Thank you for taking care of your stepchildren. One day, they will thank you for paying their medical bills and getting them what they need. I am sorry that you have to go through this system with your wife. PLEASE, keep this petition going and keep sharing.....
YES!!! It does Amy! Thank you for joining our fight in doing just that. Don't be quiet....use your pen, your typing fingers and your mouth that was made to advocate! And Amy....keep sharing and getting others to sign the petition. THANK YOU.
Thank you Lori. Yes, it definately does. Got any ideas on how to fix it?
It must be so difficult for grandparents to see their child and grandchildren go through these things. Thank you to all of the grandmas and grandpas that take over and help. PLEASE Pamela...keep sharing the petition and thank you so much for signing.....
YES! Thank you Jane!!!! Please keep sharing and helping us fight the fight!!!
Shannon, Thank you. Yes, I do not know any person that does not agree that the system needs to change. I tend to think of it this way. If the custodial parent suddenly got up and just left the home.....what would happen to the children? The non-custodial parent gets up, leaves and gives no care or responsiblity. It is then near impossible to get them to help. Why do so many non custodial parents do this?
Thank you Karen. You would think that comment would be common sense. Please keep sharing the petition...thank you so much for signing.
Yes, I can see how frustrated would be a understatement Jennifer. I am not sure of the laws from state to state. What would be your suggestions to our NJ government to make the system better?
Thank you Barbara. You feel the way alot of parents do. Please continue to share the petition and get signatures...it is the only way we can change a system...if we speak in numbers.
It is, the system is unfair Dana. Thank you so much for signing and please keep sharing the petition....
It is. The system is very unfair. Thank you for signing Dana...and please keep it going...
Thank you Barbara! That is actually a very good idea and we will use it in our report to the legislators and governor. Please share the petition and keep it going :-)
I am sorry Christina. Thank you for sharing and for signing the petition....hopefully, we can make changes.
I am so sorry Christina. Thank you for signing and please continue to share....
I am sorry Melissa. Does dad see his kids at all? I understand that he is on food stamps. Is this because he has not been able to work? Is that why he has not filed taxes?
Sid, Quite frankly, it doesn't help a parent to work. It is for parents that just don't think they should pay support. It is one of the few things NJ can do. It is not a great solution, but it is all they got. Unfortunately, our system has little enforcement that they can do to recoup arrears and child support. Currently, the following can be used as enforcement methods: -loss of license -loss of professional license - garnishment of wages -recoup through taxes or lottery winnings - suspension of passport -credit bureau reporting -enforecment hearing and possible bench warrant - imprisonment None of them are great.....but, right now it is the only consequences NJ can do. IF you have better suggestions, a new way to revamp the child support system or a idea....PLEASE let us know......
I am sorry to hear this Melody. Is their dad working?
i fight with my probation worker every 2 weeks to enforce court order and never happens. Meanwhile my kids suffer and go without while their father goes on vacation with the new wife. I set up my child support account with probation so I would have enforcement when needed but that is not the case here. You have to fight with child support to fight for child support. Where is the justice in that?
How does taking the driver's license help the parent pay the child support?