so wrong you should be able to put memorials on your child's grave .looks very beautiful xx
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Becky Cunningham
8 years ago
Any parent of an Angel baby should be left alone to do as they wish with their child's grave. It's all we have left and they're even trying to take that away. Disgusting
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Samantha Wooldridge
8 years ago
Think of the poor families who continue to grieve and have a heart. It isn't just a grave but a place to remember their loved one.
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Laura
8 years ago
Please let this family keep their happy place for their son the way it is.
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Nicola Price
8 years ago
I think families should be able to decorate their loved ones resting place however they like as long as it stays in the boundaries of their resting place.
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Claire
8 years ago
How on earth anyone with a conscious can consider this to be a suitable thing to do I have no idea. You should be ashamed.
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Cathy pettitt
8 years ago
Its discusting having to take things of the grave because they are 'unauthorised'
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Lauren Bond
8 years ago
Hi Carly
This is such an unreasonable request of the Council - you're doing an amazing thing which has gained so much interest from the public. I hope that the Council reverse their short sighted and insensitive decision
Lauren x
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Rachel Plaxton
8 years ago
Yes allow decorations
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Kirstie
8 years ago
People should be allowed to grieve in what ever way helps them. You get charged enough for funeral etc
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Anonymous
8 years ago
Thevgraves do not look terrible or unsightly. Whoever has complained about this need to remember diversity and how we have moved with the times. We are free to express our love and memories in a way which is right for each of us personally. This should be celebrated.
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Jessica Desai
8 years ago
It's awful to not allow people to keep the memory of their child alive. Very sad
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Sam Brogden
8 years ago
I don’t see anything wrong with making your loved ones grave more personal to help with their grieving. As long as it is reasonable I don’t see an issue. A few toys and windmills does is doing no harm!!
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Anonymous
8 years ago
Atrocious to cause such distress to local residents
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S clarke
8 years ago
You pay enough for the plot so should be able to put items on there
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Claire
8 years ago
You should be able to put what you want on your loved ones grave, my son's grave is in sileby cemetery and putting ornaments, toys and decorations on the grave helps you make it personal to your loved one. The last two Christmases I have put a small artificial Xmas tree on my son's grave and each time I've visited after Xmas it has gone, I can only presume it was removed.
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Kirsty lee
8 years ago
She should be able to put what she would like to on her son's grave!
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Steph
8 years ago
I see no harm in having loved things that make people feel closer to there loved one and make them feel they havent forgotten them i would be the same and and this would rip my heart out if i couldnt have my own childs grave how i wanted it to be u soon take the money for the plot grave are meant to be so ppl can still show respect for there loved ones not to be upset
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Anonymous
8 years ago
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Allow families to grieve as they wish, show some compassion. Think outside the box, put guidelines to help families maintain and not affect the environment. Do not make this a place families resent to come to because their voices were not heard.
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Elizabeth kennedy
8 years ago
This is awful. This helps families cope with the death of a loved one especially when it is a child.
so wrong you should be able to put memorials on your child's grave .looks very beautiful xx
Any parent of an Angel baby should be left alone to do as they wish with their child's grave. It's all we have left and they're even trying to take that away. Disgusting
Think of the poor families who continue to grieve and have a heart. It isn't just a grave but a place to remember their loved one.
Please let this family keep their happy place for their son the way it is.
I think families should be able to decorate their loved ones resting place however they like as long as it stays in the boundaries of their resting place.
How on earth anyone with a conscious can consider this to be a suitable thing to do I have no idea. You should be ashamed.
Its discusting having to take things of the grave because they are 'unauthorised'
Hi Carly This is such an unreasonable request of the Council - you're doing an amazing thing which has gained so much interest from the public. I hope that the Council reverse their short sighted and insensitive decision Lauren x
Yes allow decorations
People should be allowed to grieve in what ever way helps them. You get charged enough for funeral etc
Thevgraves do not look terrible or unsightly. Whoever has complained about this need to remember diversity and how we have moved with the times. We are free to express our love and memories in a way which is right for each of us personally. This should be celebrated.
It's awful to not allow people to keep the memory of their child alive. Very sad
I don’t see anything wrong with making your loved ones grave more personal to help with their grieving. As long as it is reasonable I don’t see an issue. A few toys and windmills does is doing no harm!!
Atrocious to cause such distress to local residents
You pay enough for the plot so should be able to put items on there
You should be able to put what you want on your loved ones grave, my son's grave is in sileby cemetery and putting ornaments, toys and decorations on the grave helps you make it personal to your loved one. The last two Christmases I have put a small artificial Xmas tree on my son's grave and each time I've visited after Xmas it has gone, I can only presume it was removed.
She should be able to put what she would like to on her son's grave!
I see no harm in having loved things that make people feel closer to there loved one and make them feel they havent forgotten them i would be the same and and this would rip my heart out if i couldnt have my own childs grave how i wanted it to be u soon take the money for the plot grave are meant to be so ppl can still show respect for there loved ones not to be upset
Allow families to grieve as they wish, show some compassion. Think outside the box, put guidelines to help families maintain and not affect the environment. Do not make this a place families resent to come to because their voices were not heard.
This is awful. This helps families cope with the death of a loved one especially when it is a child.