A Call To Action For Domestic Violence and Stalking Reform
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Laura Vargas
11 years ago
I feel as if i had thank goodness for a short time entered in an emotionally abusive relationship, I let the relationship go this past Tuesday, I was really taken aback by this individual because he is in the public eye, my feelings were invalidated, minimized, i felt humiliated. My friend says i need to expose him since hes in the public eye, but I don't know if this will make it worse, pls help me, thank you.
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sonya
11 years ago
I am in a abusive marriage & me & my child are stuck. He is a narcissist on top of the physical & emotional & controlling & other abuse. I am on disability & he makes sure I never have or am able to save money or support us without him so I am all for this. He has kept me from family & gotten rid of any friends I had or friends our two grown boys had & he rapes me & says its not rape because I am his wife & if I try to leave he will find me & I will regret it.He looses his temper over nothing at us. We are told what music we can listen to,what to wear,what movies we & tv show we can watch etc I have to have permission to go anywhere .So anything that would help those who can get away and their children I am for.
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sonya
11 years ago
I am in a abusive marriage & me & my child are stuck. He is a narcissist on top of the physical & emotional & controlling & other abuse. I am on disability & he makes sure I never have or am able to save money or support us without him so I am all for this. He has kept me from family & gotten rid of any friends I had or friends our two grown boys had & he rapes me & says its not rape because I am his wife & if I try to leave he will find me & I will regret it.He looses his temper over nothing at us. We are told what music we can listen to,what to wear,what movies we & tv show we can watch etc I have to have permission to go anywhere .So anything that would help those who can get away and their children I am for.
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Rebecca Potter
11 years ago
This is true, the agencies are funneling money to special agencies and not all in need. They are not training staff properly.
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Rebecca Potter
11 years ago
This is true, the agencies are funneling money to special agencies and not all in need. They are not training staff properly.
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Rebecca Potter
11 years ago
I have reached out for years and am told by these agencies who are given funds, that he can do this. I recently went to a training and found out that what he and his attorney have done is stalking. These funded agencies are not properly trained and are coached to not rock the system boat. We need outsiders who will rock the boat and protect the vulnerable.
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Rebecca Potter
11 years ago
I have reached out for years and am told by these agencies who are given funds, that he can do this. I recently went to a training and found out that what he and his attorney have done is stalking. These funded agencies are not properly trained and are coached to not rock the system boat. We need outsiders who will rock the boat and protect the vulnerable.
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kim rito
11 years ago
Im in a very abusive relationship , sexually , emotionally, and mentally. I can't take it anymore but I can't leave the guy I love so much he's all I have and I don't wanna lose him but help him change
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kim rito
11 years ago
Im in a very abusive relationship , sexually , emotionally, and mentally. I can't take it anymore but I can't leave the guy I love so much he's all I have and I don't wanna lose him but help him change
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Just Another Battered Woman
11 years ago
I'm in Ontario Canada.
Domestic Violence and Abuse and Stalking over many years ruined my life. I have flashbacks, nightmares, I startle at everything. I've been punched, strangled, smothered, knocked out, sexually assaulted, slandered, stalked and abused in every way
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Traci Sutten
11 years ago
I have been stalked for 2 years. With no help from many different law enforcement agencies. I even re-located to a different state to escape the constant spoofs and showing up to my home and shooting a pellet gun at my home with 3 small children inside. He has hacked my cellphone(s) and he listens to any conversation in my home that he wishes. He will send me spoofs back answering anything I say... He has also hacked the wi-fi on my computer. So he knows every keystroke. He also is aware everytime I notify my cellphone provider and the local sherriffs department and teases and taunts me about trying to get help. This is beyond scary; this is criminal behavior and I am all for anyone who is trying to bring laws and punishments up to speed with the new cyber type crimes and the stalking....
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MSRQUETTA DANISH
11 years ago
HELLO,MY NAME IS MS.MARQUETTA AND I'M IN A VERY BAD STALKING SITUATION,ITH NOONE TO HELP ME.I WANT TO LEARN MORE ABOUT YOUR ORGANIZATION.
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ginger henderson-brady
12 years ago
I filed for an order of protection (restraining order) in Alameda County, CA in September 2013. It was denied, he lied in court. I have facebook posts, all kinds of evidence but still it was denied. Fast-forward to today, August 24, 2014 (my 53rd birthday). Well, he continued to stalk me and I ended up marrying him on June 3rd (after a suicide attempt on my part on May 8, 2014) I've NEVER been suicidal in my life! Now, after only 2.5 months of marriage, and suffering from congestive heart failure for the last 16 months, I am homeless, penniless, prohibited from going home (he got a restraining order against ME) all lies, what a nightmare I need help, he is trying to kill me.
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Diane Maldonado
12 years ago
Some stalker use their friends and family to stalk and harass the victim. And make friends with people who are neighbor to the victim just to harass.
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shane Buckler
12 years ago
I'm a man and am married to my wife that burns me with cigarettes.she has Tourette syndrome,and uses that as an excuse to do or say whatever she wants I'm scared.she verbally abuses me daily and I can tell it's not her Tourette syndrome.she admits to it and tells me she hates me.she is six mths pregnant so I feel stuck because I want to be a good dad.I'm afraid to go to sleep she has kicked me ,not from tics either.I need serious help
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Sunita Saini
12 years ago
Legislators, this is too important if an issue not to pass through soon.
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veronica collins
12 years ago
I have been cyberstalked by my boyfriends estranged wife of 13 years and his 31 year old son. I have lost everything. I am homeless, unemployed, and in constant fear. Please help
I can no longer see my boyfriend of almost 2 years. I'm afraid I will end up dead
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Carla Pedersen
12 years ago
NOBODY should have to live with stalking and domestic violence!!! NOBODY!! It's time for humanity to stand up AGAINST DOMESTIC VIOLENCE!!!
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Tatra Stewart
12 years ago
Stalkers are dangerous, power hungry, control freaks, and will not stop until this crime is taken more seriously. Serious enough to put them behind bars- for LIFE on the 3rd strike.
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Margo Marquez
12 years ago
A relationship is about love not Violence or belittlement ! Get away from that sick ass ASAP
I feel as if i had thank goodness for a short time entered in an emotionally abusive relationship, I let the relationship go this past Tuesday, I was really taken aback by this individual because he is in the public eye, my feelings were invalidated, minimized, i felt humiliated. My friend says i need to expose him since hes in the public eye, but I don't know if this will make it worse, pls help me, thank you.
I am in a abusive marriage & me & my child are stuck. He is a narcissist on top of the physical & emotional & controlling & other abuse. I am on disability & he makes sure I never have or am able to save money or support us without him so I am all for this. He has kept me from family & gotten rid of any friends I had or friends our two grown boys had & he rapes me & says its not rape because I am his wife & if I try to leave he will find me & I will regret it.He looses his temper over nothing at us. We are told what music we can listen to,what to wear,what movies we & tv show we can watch etc I have to have permission to go anywhere .So anything that would help those who can get away and their children I am for.
I am in a abusive marriage & me & my child are stuck. He is a narcissist on top of the physical & emotional & controlling & other abuse. I am on disability & he makes sure I never have or am able to save money or support us without him so I am all for this. He has kept me from family & gotten rid of any friends I had or friends our two grown boys had & he rapes me & says its not rape because I am his wife & if I try to leave he will find me & I will regret it.He looses his temper over nothing at us. We are told what music we can listen to,what to wear,what movies we & tv show we can watch etc I have to have permission to go anywhere .So anything that would help those who can get away and their children I am for.
This is true, the agencies are funneling money to special agencies and not all in need. They are not training staff properly.
This is true, the agencies are funneling money to special agencies and not all in need. They are not training staff properly.
I have reached out for years and am told by these agencies who are given funds, that he can do this. I recently went to a training and found out that what he and his attorney have done is stalking. These funded agencies are not properly trained and are coached to not rock the system boat. We need outsiders who will rock the boat and protect the vulnerable.
I have reached out for years and am told by these agencies who are given funds, that he can do this. I recently went to a training and found out that what he and his attorney have done is stalking. These funded agencies are not properly trained and are coached to not rock the system boat. We need outsiders who will rock the boat and protect the vulnerable.
Im in a very abusive relationship , sexually , emotionally, and mentally. I can't take it anymore but I can't leave the guy I love so much he's all I have and I don't wanna lose him but help him change
Im in a very abusive relationship , sexually , emotionally, and mentally. I can't take it anymore but I can't leave the guy I love so much he's all I have and I don't wanna lose him but help him change
I'm in Ontario Canada. Domestic Violence and Abuse and Stalking over many years ruined my life. I have flashbacks, nightmares, I startle at everything. I've been punched, strangled, smothered, knocked out, sexually assaulted, slandered, stalked and abused in every way
I have been stalked for 2 years. With no help from many different law enforcement agencies. I even re-located to a different state to escape the constant spoofs and showing up to my home and shooting a pellet gun at my home with 3 small children inside. He has hacked my cellphone(s) and he listens to any conversation in my home that he wishes. He will send me spoofs back answering anything I say... He has also hacked the wi-fi on my computer. So he knows every keystroke. He also is aware everytime I notify my cellphone provider and the local sherriffs department and teases and taunts me about trying to get help. This is beyond scary; this is criminal behavior and I am all for anyone who is trying to bring laws and punishments up to speed with the new cyber type crimes and the stalking....
HELLO,MY NAME IS MS.MARQUETTA AND I'M IN A VERY BAD STALKING SITUATION,ITH NOONE TO HELP ME.I WANT TO LEARN MORE ABOUT YOUR ORGANIZATION.
I filed for an order of protection (restraining order) in Alameda County, CA in September 2013. It was denied, he lied in court. I have facebook posts, all kinds of evidence but still it was denied. Fast-forward to today, August 24, 2014 (my 53rd birthday). Well, he continued to stalk me and I ended up marrying him on June 3rd (after a suicide attempt on my part on May 8, 2014) I've NEVER been suicidal in my life! Now, after only 2.5 months of marriage, and suffering from congestive heart failure for the last 16 months, I am homeless, penniless, prohibited from going home (he got a restraining order against ME) all lies, what a nightmare I need help, he is trying to kill me.
Some stalker use their friends and family to stalk and harass the victim. And make friends with people who are neighbor to the victim just to harass.
I'm a man and am married to my wife that burns me with cigarettes.she has Tourette syndrome,and uses that as an excuse to do or say whatever she wants I'm scared.she verbally abuses me daily and I can tell it's not her Tourette syndrome.she admits to it and tells me she hates me.she is six mths pregnant so I feel stuck because I want to be a good dad.I'm afraid to go to sleep she has kicked me ,not from tics either.I need serious help
Legislators, this is too important if an issue not to pass through soon.
I have been cyberstalked by my boyfriends estranged wife of 13 years and his 31 year old son. I have lost everything. I am homeless, unemployed, and in constant fear. Please help I can no longer see my boyfriend of almost 2 years. I'm afraid I will end up dead
NOBODY should have to live with stalking and domestic violence!!! NOBODY!! It's time for humanity to stand up AGAINST DOMESTIC VIOLENCE!!!
Stalkers are dangerous, power hungry, control freaks, and will not stop until this crime is taken more seriously. Serious enough to put them behind bars- for LIFE on the 3rd strike.
A relationship is about love not Violence or belittlement ! Get away from that sick ass ASAP