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Stop Extortion against women from men who use them for gaining residency, a easy life and to help other women! ,
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In recent years, the incidence of men using women to gain entry or permanent residency in the United States have increased! Unlike traditional practice that I grew up seeing where men are the bread winners of the family, now a days many men depend on a woman to care for them.
I have been a recent victim in a similar situation. I met my soon to be ex spouse about 6 years ago. Prior to me he was in a 1 year relationship with an American born female who refused to help him obtain his green card. Fortunate for her and very sad for me and what I've been through. My ex spouse told me all manner of things on how she treated him and I eventually realized why. He was advised by his parents then that even if he didn't love or want her to try and get a green card from her.
We got married in 2011 and I got pregnant in 2011 right after our marriage. In 2011 October he had an affair with another woman and we were able to move beyond it even though it was very difficult, but things were never the same. I was privy to messages he sent to a female ex of his who was also undocumented and was trying to get her papers from a man in Florida but things were not going well. My soon to be ex promised her he will give her her papers if she waited for him to get his status from me then divorce me to marry her. He claimed it was just a joke and I bought his story.
2014 September, we separated after I was pushed in my face twice by him after a verbal argument while I was pregnant and on bed rest. I called the police and he left the house before they came. We have been separated since then. He abandoned his home and family. I eventually filed for a divorce in October 2015. Before the divorce my ex mother and father kept on stressing that he is entitled to half of what I have and he constantly reminded me of it. He came in the relationship with nothing. Everything I have I worked hard for.
About a week ago I informed my ex that our divorce will be final at the end of this month. He responded to me saying "we should not have been married in the first place because I didn't love you and I wasn't feeling you but everyone told me to do it". Now right before my divorce judgment. I was served with papers from his attorney requesting spousal support, joint custody, for him to remian the beneficiary on my life insurance policy, split of marital property and for me to pay his litigation fees. My sentiment is if he didn't love me, we should not have been married why should any judge even consider his case? I have heard of men who prey on women for things, but this man is beyond heartless! He sees and knows how hard I have to work and care for my three kids. Due to his lack of sufficient support I basically have to find it all for them. So what do they expect me to do to look for another job to support him for all he's requesting? Cause I certainly cannot support myself, my kids plus him. The justice system has to take action against these vampires who prey on women! Many of what he does is family driven. His parents want him to live off me when they know how hard I work to support my kids. They have worked hire hardest to destroy the lives of their grand children and my mine. I leave them to the creator!
With all that being said, this man need his green card revoked for not entering the marriage in good faith! Women let us join hands and heart to stop these men from taking disadvantage of us! Let's do this ladies! I crave your support! Please share this with your friends family and anyone you know. I need your support! I intend to take legal actions and contact the Uscis after I receive a substantial amount of signatures! Thank you and God bless!
P.S disregard the donation request at this end of the signature and comment. No contribution is needed. I just need your support in helping to stop people like these from destroying young women and children's lives!
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June 13, 2016
I have been reading through all the messages people are sending me and the stories are honestly just so similar to what I went through myself. It is heavy realizing how many of us were blinded by these promises before the real intentions came out. I am currently trying to get in touch with a few advocacy groups to see if we can get some actual legal momentum behind this because talking about it is good but fixing the system feels like the only way out.
June 13, 2016
I never imagined this would actually take off like it has when I started typing this out in a fit of pure frustration. It feels like the air is finally clearing and some of these stories are starting to resonate which is just wild to me (I really did think I was alone in this for so long).
32 Comments
That man is wicked. After a green card I would have been greatful. A green card is the biggest step to making it in America. As a man I was raised to work to eat. That's how my parents raised me. By the sweat of your brow you shall eat bread that's what the bible says. Woe be unto those men who go a stray from thy word. Pray and see how God work for you.
I knew he was fake. I told you I didn't feel him. There was something about that man, I have watched you struggle with those boys. This man has a nerve how can he want what he never worked for. This is a man that wasn't raised right. but don't worry. KARMA. Fight, fight until the end. Don't give up! Gods got you! Jesus has the final say!
I am so sorry you had to endure this from a man that claimed to be of faith. Not was he unfaithful to you he was unfaithful to God and his vows. Now he wants what he did not provide. I was there when he left and did not raise a hand to help you with the children. All I can say is Karma. He will get it back a thousand fold. My God see everything.
I commend your bravery for being so transparent. I remembered your wedding. My God he is an evil pretender. These men are predators and they need to be stopped. Keep pushing as I have your back 10000%
Omg..im in the same situation He only marrued for a green card and he laugh at me..i endure emotional abuse..and he keep telling me that ge is entitle to everything. I m the only one that works. Is horrible..
What an ungrateful man
Such a shame. That's not a real man!
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Stop Extortion against women from men who use them for gaining residency, a easy life and to help other women! ,
Final supporters
In recent years, the incidence of men using women to gain entry or permanent residency in the United States have increased! Unlike traditional practice that I grew up seeing where men are the bread winners of the family, now a days many men depend on a woman to care for them.
I have been a recent victim in a similar situation. I met my soon to be ex spouse about 6 years ago. Prior to me he was in a 1 year relationship with an American born female who refused to help him obtain his green card. Fortunate for her and very sad for me and what I've been through. My ex spouse told me all manner of things on how she treated him and I eventually realized why. He was advised by his parents then that even if he didn't love or want her to try and get a green card from her.
We got married in 2011 and I got pregnant in 2011 right after our marriage. In 2011 October he had an affair with another woman and we were able to move beyond it even though it was very difficult, but things were never the same. I was privy to messages he sent to a female ex of his who was also undocumented and was trying to get her papers from a man in Florida but things were not going well. My soon to be ex promised her he will give her her papers if she waited for him to get his status from me then divorce me to marry her. He claimed it was just a joke and I bought his story.
2014 September, we separated after I was pushed in my face twice by him after a verbal argument while I was pregnant and on bed rest. I called the police and he left the house before they came. We have been separated since then. He abandoned his home and family. I eventually filed for a divorce in October 2015. Before the divorce my ex mother and father kept on stressing that he is entitled to half of what I have and he constantly reminded me of it. He came in the relationship with nothing. Everything I have I worked hard for.
About a week ago I informed my ex that our divorce will be final at the end of this month. He responded to me saying "we should not have been married in the first place because I didn't love you and I wasn't feeling you but everyone told me to do it". Now right before my divorce judgment. I was served with papers from his attorney requesting spousal support, joint custody, for him to remian the beneficiary on my life insurance policy, split of marital property and for me to pay his litigation fees. My sentiment is if he didn't love me, we should not have been married why should any judge even consider his case? I have heard of men who prey on women for things, but this man is beyond heartless! He sees and knows how hard I have to work and care for my three kids. Due to his lack of sufficient support I basically have to find it all for them. So what do they expect me to do to look for another job to support him for all he's requesting? Cause I certainly cannot support myself, my kids plus him. The justice system has to take action against these vampires who prey on women! Many of what he does is family driven. His parents want him to live off me when they know how hard I work to support my kids. They have worked hire hardest to destroy the lives of their grand children and my mine. I leave them to the creator!
With all that being said, this man need his green card revoked for not entering the marriage in good faith! Women let us join hands and heart to stop these men from taking disadvantage of us! Let's do this ladies! I crave your support! Please share this with your friends family and anyone you know. I need your support! I intend to take legal actions and contact the Uscis after I receive a substantial amount of signatures! Thank you and God bless!
P.S disregard the donation request at this end of the signature and comment. No contribution is needed. I just need your support in helping to stop people like these from destroying young women and children's lives!
Updates
June 13, 2016
I have been reading through all the messages people are sending me and the stories are honestly just so similar to what I went through myself. It is heavy realizing how many of us were blinded by these promises before the real intentions came out. I am currently trying to get in touch with a few advocacy groups to see if we can get some actual legal momentum behind this because talking about it is good but fixing the system feels like the only way out.
June 13, 2016
I never imagined this would actually take off like it has when I started typing this out in a fit of pure frustration. It feels like the air is finally clearing and some of these stories are starting to resonate which is just wild to me (I really did think I was alone in this for so long).
32 Comments
He's cold hearted. How can a man do that to a woman who take care of his kids. I know the relationship. You busy your ass for all you have accomplished. Keep fighting
That man is wicked. After a green card I would have been greatful. A green card is the biggest step to making it in America. As a man I was raised to work to eat. That's how my parents raised me. By the sweat of your brow you shall eat bread that's what the bible says. Woe be unto those men who go a stray from thy word. Pray and see how God work for you.
I knew he was fake. I told you I didn't feel him. There was something about that man, I have watched you struggle with those boys. This man has a nerve how can he want what he never worked for. This is a man that wasn't raised right. but don't worry. KARMA. Fight, fight until the end. Don't give up! Gods got you! Jesus has the final say!
I am so sorry you had to endure this from a man that claimed to be of faith. Not was he unfaithful to you he was unfaithful to God and his vows. Now he wants what he did not provide. I was there when he left and did not raise a hand to help you with the children. All I can say is Karma. He will get it back a thousand fold. My God see everything.
I commend your bravery for being so transparent. I remembered your wedding. My God he is an evil pretender. These men are predators and they need to be stopped. Keep pushing as I have your back 10000%
Omg..im in the same situation He only marrued for a green card and he laugh at me..i endure emotional abuse..and he keep telling me that ge is entitle to everything. I m the only one that works. Is horrible..
What an ungrateful man
Such a shame. That's not a real man!
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He's cold hearted. How can a man do that to a woman who take care of his kids. I know the relationship. You busy your ass for all you have accomplished. Keep fighting