While I understand that emotions can run high when it comes to our children and their well-being, this statement seems more reflective of personal frustrations than objective facts. If your child is yawning during practice, that’s not a sign of mistreatment—it’s a safety concern. Imagine your backspot nodding off mid-routine. As parents, it’s our responsibility to ensure our athletes are well-rested and ready to participate safely and effectively.
Regarding Coach Jewel Grossi, the accusations sound more like subjective interpretations than actual misconduct. Comments like “You were always going to be a backup” or “Your skills are getting worse” may be hard to hear, but honest feedback isn’t abuse. It’s a competitive sport. If your child is struggling with skills or placement, maybe the next step should be investing in private lessons—like many of us do—rather than blaming the coach for not handing out spots based on feelings instead of performance.
Coach Jewel’s role is to select the best of the best, not to cater to personal expectations or spare egos. Your claims read less like concern for athlete welfare and more like retaliation because things didn’t go your way.
Furthermore, if your child felt manipulated into a season or unable to stand up for themselves, isn’t that part of your job as a parent—to guide and empower them? This program is voluntary. If your child genuinely didn’t want to be here, there are ways to respectfully withdraw without publicly attacking a coach or a system that has benefited many.
Honestly, the tone and nature of your statement seem more like bullying from an upset parent than a constructive complaint. Maybe it’s not just Coach Jewel who should be reviewed—perhaps the board should look into how we’re handling accountability and the expectations we place on both coaches and young athletes.
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Cindy
1 year ago
KEEP THIS QUEEN PLS. Thx. Sincerely, your favorite in the 916, Cindy B
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Cindy
1 year ago
Gurl it was never that serious…
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Ry
1 year ago
Love you
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Alyssa Southwick
1 year ago
I have known Jewel for 20 years and her personality has always matched the positive things written in this petition. She takes so much pride in being a cheer coach and truly cares about the program and the girls she coaches. It is shameful that decisions were made before she was even able to give her side of the story. Jewel is the type of coach every parent should want for their child; someone supportive and encouraging who also has high expectations for her athletes. I really hope Jewel gets a chance to speak in front of the board - she deserves it!
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mk
1 year ago
@ anonymous First off if you stand behind what you are saying why not post your name!!! Be about your words! You look really foolish! Out of 230 comments there's one negative Nancy!
Why are you so mad, you sound like you're the bully! How many 10 or 11 year olds know what toxic and manipulation is unless they are seeing it at home! Shame on you for making these things up and trying to make Jewel look bad, it sounds like you need to do some self-reflection! Everyone knows who you are!!!
If Jewel was so toxic, why are only you and a few other family's the only ones complaining? Jewel goes above and beyond for these children 24/7.
Also, if your kid is yawning at practice and not paying attention they should be called out! Sounds like your child might be too tired and a safety hazard to their team!
SHOW YOUR PROOF! WE ARE ALL WAITING! We want a fair investigation of these horrible allegations!
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Ying Liu
1 year ago
I just wanted to take a moment to express how truly grateful we are for everything you do. You are, without a doubt, the best coach we could have ever hoped for, and it’s clear to everyone that there is retaliation against you because of incompetent parents whom have continued to return to the program year after year smiled in your face, and now want your place. We’ve witnessed other coaches deliberately over look girls or be “mean girls” to children yet they aren’t brought up or are hiding behind the husbands whom are creating this chaos due to their lack of personal efficiencies. Absolutely ridiculous and we all who have been here see through it all. From faking injuries to being unsupportive parents.
Your dedication to these kids goes far beyond teaching routines and leading practices. You inspire them, support them, and help them grow—not just as cheerleaders, but as confident, kind, and hardworking individuals. The way you lead with both strength and compassion creates such a positive and encouraging environment, and it shows in how much the girls love being part of this team.
It’s so clear that you genuinely care about each one of them—not just about their performance, but about who they are as people. That means the world to us as parents. You bring out the best in them and make them feel seen, valued, and empowered. That kind of leadership is rare and truly special.
Thank you for pouring your heart into this program and for being such a powerful role model. We’re incredibly lucky to have you at the heart of West Park Jr. Panther Cheer, and we appreciate you more than words can say. We will continue to fight for you to obtain your Cheer Coach role back! Regardless of the threats being made by husbands who created this chaos. We won’t be silenced to stand on TRUTH.
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Sara Meade
1 year ago
I met her several times, and she was incredibly sweet. I observed her helping others and being genuinely kind.
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Anonymous
1 year ago
Key Issues & Incidents:
1. Retaliation and Emotional Abuse:
o After expressing concerns, our child was removed from routines.
o Both of our children have come home from practices and games in tears
on multiple occasions.
o They have been subjected to repeated belittling statements from Coach
Jewel Grossi, including:
▪ “You were always going to be a backup.”
▪ “At this point, you’d be lucky to make the comp team.”
▪ “Your skills are getting worse; you’ll be lucky to make 14U.”
o These comments were made to children aged 10–13 and have severely
impacted their confidence and enjoyment of the sport.
2. Public Humiliation:
o One daughter was called out in front of the entire team for yawning.
o The younger sibling was then publicly complimented in a way that felt
like an intentional comparison. Later, she said it “wasn’t even a real
compliment—it was just to embarrass my sister.”
3. Inappropriate Communication Practices:
o Each season includes a team group chat where Coach Jewel is the only
adult present. This raises serious safeguarding and SafeSport concerns.
4. Manipulation of Athletes:
o During a parent meeting for stunt season (which athletes were
encouraged to attend), the coach became emotional and said if all
athletes didn’t commit, the season would be canceled.
o Our 10-year-old came home describing it as “manipulative” and felt
guilty for not wanting to continue. Despite multiple athletes declining,
the season went forward, proving the threat was false.
5. Impact on Athletes:
o My 11-year-old, while reading the Code of Conduct, said, “The
environment may be physically safe, but it’s not healthy.”
o My 13-year-old texted asking to be removed from the program, stating
she didn’t want one toxic coach to ruin her favorite sport during her final
year.
Conclusion & Request for Action:
Our children describe the environment as toxic, and after much hesitation and fear of
social fallout, we cannot remain silent. The emotional well-bein
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KC Miller
1 year ago
Coach Jewel deserves the right to share her side of the story!
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Tenli VanRozeboom
1 year ago
She is a great coach and the program will be at a loss without her
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Terry
1 year ago
Keep Jewel
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Anthony
1 year ago
Jewel is, without a doubt, the best coach for these kids. What sets her apart is that she genuinely cares, not just about performance, but about each child as a person. She consistently goes above and beyond, whether it’s staying late to offer extra help, cheering the loudest from the sidelines, or simply making sure every kid feels seen and supported. I’ve been to many sports and activities across the area, and I haven’t come across another coach with her level of kindness, patience, and heart. She’s truly one of a kind.
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Krista
1 year ago
Coach Jewel, we stand behind you all of the way!
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Anna Mejorado
1 year ago
To the Board Members,
Jewel has been a cherished friend of our family for many years. She has always gone above and beyond to support not only us but countless others in the community. Her warmth, dedication, and genuine care are felt in every interaction — whether it's taking a moment to greet my daughter and me at games or offering help in times of need, she consistently shows up with integrity and heart.
The way her situation was handled in light of recent accusations was not only unfair — it was deeply disheartening. The lack of due process, the absence of clear communication, and the overall treatment she received did not reflect the standards of professionalism or respect we expect from our leadership. What’s worse, it felt more like targeted bullying than responsible governance. The threats and accusations made against her were baseless and deeply damaging, and the board’s response only compounded the harm.
It is painful to witness someone who has given so much to this program and this community be treated this way. It also raises serious concerns about how other matters are being handled behind closed doors. We owe it to our students, our families, and our values to do better.
Please reconsider your decision and reinstate Coach Jewel. She deserves fairness, respect, and the opportunity to continue making the positive impact she’s always made.
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Liana Ramos
1 year ago
I fully support the reinstatement of Coach Jewel, who has been nothing short of incredible for our cheer program. Her leadership, dedication, and genuine care for her athletes have brought tremendous growth and positivity to the team. It is deeply unfair and disappointing that she has been let go based on false accusations that do not reflect her character or the impact she has made. It's hard to ignore the troubling pattern that this decision may be rooted in racial bias — particularly because she is a strong, Black woman in a leadership role. Coach Jewel deserves justice, and our team deserves the coach who has always gone above and beyond for us.
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Jamie Gruzas
1 year ago
I disagree with how this situation was handled.
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Marilena
1 year ago
I support you Jewel … this was a premeditated injustice that took place.
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Brandy Velarde
1 year ago
I had the pleasure of meeting Jewel many years ago. She was my daughter’s first cheer coach. Every single interaction we have had with her has been warm and welcoming. We have since moved and joined another cheer team and Jewel goes out of her way to say hi to my daughter and I at games and competitions. Sometimes I’m not even around but she’ll find my daughter, give her a big hug, and wish her good luck. I can’t tell you how much that means to a growing girl. For her to see someone who knew her a long time ago still goes out of her way to support her is huge. Jewel is 100% what you need in a coach. In fact, if you could copy and paste her a few times you guys would be unstoppable. Shame on these parents for turning this into a big deal. Especially anonymously. Stand up & say it or sit down and be quiet. It takes a huge amount of passion, time, and energy to be a part of an organization like this. She’s poured her heart into this program and this is the thanks she gets. Disheartening to say the least.
While I understand that emotions can run high when it comes to our children and their well-being, this statement seems more reflective of personal frustrations than objective facts. If your child is yawning during practice, that’s not a sign of mistreatment—it’s a safety concern. Imagine your backspot nodding off mid-routine. As parents, it’s our responsibility to ensure our athletes are well-rested and ready to participate safely and effectively. Regarding Coach Jewel Grossi, the accusations sound more like subjective interpretations than actual misconduct. Comments like “You were always going to be a backup” or “Your skills are getting worse” may be hard to hear, but honest feedback isn’t abuse. It’s a competitive sport. If your child is struggling with skills or placement, maybe the next step should be investing in private lessons—like many of us do—rather than blaming the coach for not handing out spots based on feelings instead of performance. Coach Jewel’s role is to select the best of the best, not to cater to personal expectations or spare egos. Your claims read less like concern for athlete welfare and more like retaliation because things didn’t go your way. Furthermore, if your child felt manipulated into a season or unable to stand up for themselves, isn’t that part of your job as a parent—to guide and empower them? This program is voluntary. If your child genuinely didn’t want to be here, there are ways to respectfully withdraw without publicly attacking a coach or a system that has benefited many. Honestly, the tone and nature of your statement seem more like bullying from an upset parent than a constructive complaint. Maybe it’s not just Coach Jewel who should be reviewed—perhaps the board should look into how we’re handling accountability and the expectations we place on both coaches and young athletes.
KEEP THIS QUEEN PLS. Thx. Sincerely, your favorite in the 916, Cindy B
Gurl it was never that serious…
Love you
I have known Jewel for 20 years and her personality has always matched the positive things written in this petition. She takes so much pride in being a cheer coach and truly cares about the program and the girls she coaches. It is shameful that decisions were made before she was even able to give her side of the story. Jewel is the type of coach every parent should want for their child; someone supportive and encouraging who also has high expectations for her athletes. I really hope Jewel gets a chance to speak in front of the board - she deserves it!
@ anonymous First off if you stand behind what you are saying why not post your name!!! Be about your words! You look really foolish! Out of 230 comments there's one negative Nancy! Why are you so mad, you sound like you're the bully! How many 10 or 11 year olds know what toxic and manipulation is unless they are seeing it at home! Shame on you for making these things up and trying to make Jewel look bad, it sounds like you need to do some self-reflection! Everyone knows who you are!!! If Jewel was so toxic, why are only you and a few other family's the only ones complaining? Jewel goes above and beyond for these children 24/7. Also, if your kid is yawning at practice and not paying attention they should be called out! Sounds like your child might be too tired and a safety hazard to their team! SHOW YOUR PROOF! WE ARE ALL WAITING! We want a fair investigation of these horrible allegations!
I just wanted to take a moment to express how truly grateful we are for everything you do. You are, without a doubt, the best coach we could have ever hoped for, and it’s clear to everyone that there is retaliation against you because of incompetent parents whom have continued to return to the program year after year smiled in your face, and now want your place. We’ve witnessed other coaches deliberately over look girls or be “mean girls” to children yet they aren’t brought up or are hiding behind the husbands whom are creating this chaos due to their lack of personal efficiencies. Absolutely ridiculous and we all who have been here see through it all. From faking injuries to being unsupportive parents. Your dedication to these kids goes far beyond teaching routines and leading practices. You inspire them, support them, and help them grow—not just as cheerleaders, but as confident, kind, and hardworking individuals. The way you lead with both strength and compassion creates such a positive and encouraging environment, and it shows in how much the girls love being part of this team. It’s so clear that you genuinely care about each one of them—not just about their performance, but about who they are as people. That means the world to us as parents. You bring out the best in them and make them feel seen, valued, and empowered. That kind of leadership is rare and truly special. Thank you for pouring your heart into this program and for being such a powerful role model. We’re incredibly lucky to have you at the heart of West Park Jr. Panther Cheer, and we appreciate you more than words can say. We will continue to fight for you to obtain your Cheer Coach role back! Regardless of the threats being made by husbands who created this chaos. We won’t be silenced to stand on TRUTH.
I met her several times, and she was incredibly sweet. I observed her helping others and being genuinely kind.
Key Issues & Incidents: 1. Retaliation and Emotional Abuse: o After expressing concerns, our child was removed from routines. o Both of our children have come home from practices and games in tears on multiple occasions. o They have been subjected to repeated belittling statements from Coach Jewel Grossi, including: ▪ “You were always going to be a backup.” ▪ “At this point, you’d be lucky to make the comp team.” ▪ “Your skills are getting worse; you’ll be lucky to make 14U.” o These comments were made to children aged 10–13 and have severely impacted their confidence and enjoyment of the sport. 2. Public Humiliation: o One daughter was called out in front of the entire team for yawning. o The younger sibling was then publicly complimented in a way that felt like an intentional comparison. Later, she said it “wasn’t even a real compliment—it was just to embarrass my sister.” 3. Inappropriate Communication Practices: o Each season includes a team group chat where Coach Jewel is the only adult present. This raises serious safeguarding and SafeSport concerns. 4. Manipulation of Athletes: o During a parent meeting for stunt season (which athletes were encouraged to attend), the coach became emotional and said if all athletes didn’t commit, the season would be canceled. o Our 10-year-old came home describing it as “manipulative” and felt guilty for not wanting to continue. Despite multiple athletes declining, the season went forward, proving the threat was false. 5. Impact on Athletes: o My 11-year-old, while reading the Code of Conduct, said, “The environment may be physically safe, but it’s not healthy.” o My 13-year-old texted asking to be removed from the program, stating she didn’t want one toxic coach to ruin her favorite sport during her final year. Conclusion & Request for Action: Our children describe the environment as toxic, and after much hesitation and fear of social fallout, we cannot remain silent. The emotional well-bein
Coach Jewel deserves the right to share her side of the story!
She is a great coach and the program will be at a loss without her
Keep Jewel
Jewel is, without a doubt, the best coach for these kids. What sets her apart is that she genuinely cares, not just about performance, but about each child as a person. She consistently goes above and beyond, whether it’s staying late to offer extra help, cheering the loudest from the sidelines, or simply making sure every kid feels seen and supported. I’ve been to many sports and activities across the area, and I haven’t come across another coach with her level of kindness, patience, and heart. She’s truly one of a kind.
Coach Jewel, we stand behind you all of the way!
To the Board Members, Jewel has been a cherished friend of our family for many years. She has always gone above and beyond to support not only us but countless others in the community. Her warmth, dedication, and genuine care are felt in every interaction — whether it's taking a moment to greet my daughter and me at games or offering help in times of need, she consistently shows up with integrity and heart. The way her situation was handled in light of recent accusations was not only unfair — it was deeply disheartening. The lack of due process, the absence of clear communication, and the overall treatment she received did not reflect the standards of professionalism or respect we expect from our leadership. What’s worse, it felt more like targeted bullying than responsible governance. The threats and accusations made against her were baseless and deeply damaging, and the board’s response only compounded the harm. It is painful to witness someone who has given so much to this program and this community be treated this way. It also raises serious concerns about how other matters are being handled behind closed doors. We owe it to our students, our families, and our values to do better. Please reconsider your decision and reinstate Coach Jewel. She deserves fairness, respect, and the opportunity to continue making the positive impact she’s always made.
I fully support the reinstatement of Coach Jewel, who has been nothing short of incredible for our cheer program. Her leadership, dedication, and genuine care for her athletes have brought tremendous growth and positivity to the team. It is deeply unfair and disappointing that she has been let go based on false accusations that do not reflect her character or the impact she has made. It's hard to ignore the troubling pattern that this decision may be rooted in racial bias — particularly because she is a strong, Black woman in a leadership role. Coach Jewel deserves justice, and our team deserves the coach who has always gone above and beyond for us.
I disagree with how this situation was handled.
I support you Jewel … this was a premeditated injustice that took place.
I had the pleasure of meeting Jewel many years ago. She was my daughter’s first cheer coach. Every single interaction we have had with her has been warm and welcoming. We have since moved and joined another cheer team and Jewel goes out of her way to say hi to my daughter and I at games and competitions. Sometimes I’m not even around but she’ll find my daughter, give her a big hug, and wish her good luck. I can’t tell you how much that means to a growing girl. For her to see someone who knew her a long time ago still goes out of her way to support her is huge. Jewel is 100% what you need in a coach. In fact, if you could copy and paste her a few times you guys would be unstoppable. Shame on these parents for turning this into a big deal. Especially anonymously. Stand up & say it or sit down and be quiet. It takes a huge amount of passion, time, and energy to be a part of an organization like this. She’s poured her heart into this program and this is the thanks she gets. Disheartening to say the least.
Please do what’s right, she’s a great woman.