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NEW JERSEY FOSTER PARENTS BILL OF RIGHTS

NEW JERSEY FOSTER PARENTS BILL OF RIGHTS

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Started by Anonymous 13 years, 4 months ago
Does this sound Familiar to you? Unprecedented: N.J. judges find foster parents have no say in child placement The hearts of New Jersey foster parents are in the right place, but that doesn't give them a say in placement hearings, a state appeals court has ruled in an unprecedented decision stemming from a Hudson County case. The “resource parents,” as parents are called in the state’s courts, have “no independent legal interest” when a judge is weighing where to place youngsters from troubled situations, the Appellate Division determined. That responsibility belongs to a law guardian appointed by DYFS. “The importance of the essential role of resource parents in the child placement arena is unquestioned,” Judge Marie Lihotz wrote. “However, the legal rights of such caregivers in securing an undisturbed relationship with a child placed in their home [are] very limited.” (Copy and paste link to continue reading article http://cliffviewpilot.com/unprecedented-n-j-judges-find-foster-parents-have-no-say-in-child-placement/) But why? Why are resource parent's legal rights to their foster child VERY limited? This is a question that has yet to be answered. Case after case you hear stories as such that have concluded with the same outcome. It is life changing to open your home to a child or children, feed them, dress them, care for them, love them and keep them safe from the situation that they have come from. Only to have a court judge and law guardian make the ultimate decision in the permanent placement of the child. These two individuals have the least amount of contact with the child, if any at all. Yet, they have the final word in where or who will be raising the child. This is why it is crucial to support this petition so that injustices as such will cease in the State of New Jersey! We need your help! We need to hold NJ DCF accountable for adopting a Case Practice Model (their guide post) which is heavily focused on the family and its rehabilitation rather than the “best interest of the child”. Let’s face it, we live in one of the most liberal states in the country when it comes to Child Welfare practices, even California is tougher. In California for example, if you are caught running a meth lab or have exposed your children to meth - your parental rights are automatically terminated. In NJ, all you need to do is meet the very low bar established in the shape of a “service plan” and you will have your child back in your custody - the whole apparatus (judges, DYFS, law guardian’s et al) consider you rehabilitated. If the “parents” do not comply, the system will without question seek next of kin for the sake of “family preservation”. With all of this being said, let’s address the issue of the apparatus that supports this system. The current case practice model does not even specifically mention ASFA. So, obviously ASFA is not the guidepost being utilized by the team of experts that are looking out for the “best interest of the child” in NJ. Most case workers do not understand that their job is to look out for the child and not the parents. The judges do not want to have their decisions overturned on appeal so they usually go for the easiest decision - reunification. As for the Law Guardians unless you are able to express your wants clearly & verbally in court which in the case of their very young clients is just not possible. Currently there are 16 States that have the Bill of Rights implemented for foster parents and 10 have them legislated into law and New Jersey is not one of them. • Alabama • Georgia • Illinois • Louisiana • Maryland • Mississippi • Missouri • Oklahoma • Tennessee • Washington We need to add New Jersey onto this list….Please sign this petition.

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May 2, 2013

The momentum is incredible. This proves we are not alone in demanding change.

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Yvette smith
8 years ago Featured

I’m fighting this battle now..I’ve had my baby since he was 11 days & now he’s going to North Carolina with a aunt.. please help me find a way to keep him..

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David Chapman
13 years ago Featured

Agreed. DYFS needs to listen to the people actually raising these kids.

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Mike Turner
13 years ago Featured

System is broken. We do all the work and have zero say in anything. Need change now

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Brenda Parker
13 years ago Featured

This is exactly what is happening to us right now. They just move the kids like they are furniture. Its devastating for the family.

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Jennifer Chen
13 years ago Featured

We are just temporary housing to them and it sucks. These kids deserve better than to just be pushed around by the courts!!!!

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Sarah Liu
13 years ago Featured

MY HEART IS BREAKING. After 2 years they are taking our foster son away and we have no rights to even contest it. This is so wrong.

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Trina Bell
5 years ago

Yes, guys I'm a foster parent in NJ and we are going through this very issue right now. We had our little one from a few weeks old and child has been with us for almost 2yrs now. DCF plan to remove the child in a few weeks sending her to a "hot spot "Florida to relative whom the child has never met. On top of that the child's health will put at risk by flying on a plane and quarantine. The child can not wear a mask. I get that this is their policy to put a child with biological family but one size does not fit all. This very cruel to do this to the child just because it's easier for you them to move on to the next case. All the while they were giving me false hope in keeping the child. I never been part of any of the hearings or anything. They have made all these decisions about the child without even including the people who know the child the best. It would be one thing if the child was with me for few months but the bonding has set in after almost a few years. I'm very afraid for my foster child . I do very much want to adopt which was understood from the beginning they even had me fill out form stating so. I'm certainly not sure if We could ever do fostering again although DCF would like us to. Help is needed for foster parents like us. Thank you so much and stay safe everyone!

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James Aaronson
8 years ago

As a resource home, we are most definitely not being treated right by CPS