Coercive control, emotional abuse and psychological abuse in intimate relationships needs to be made a crime, it already is in some countries, as part of domestic violence law. These con-artists and fraudsters cause immeasurable damage, they need to be recognised and reprimanded.
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John LaBello
7 years ago
You have my support! Something needs to be done!
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Anonymous
7 years ago
So much damage has been done!
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Christen carter
7 years ago
Its a tragic relationship to say the least
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Carol A
7 years ago
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I am a victim, went through hell, lost a child to suicide, have C-PTSD, due to narcissistic abuse. There currently is little-to-no common knowledge of the damages done to a victim of narcissistic abuse, much less help in the legal system for victims.
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jill cline
7 years ago
my malignant narcissistic mother pushed my brother to suicide...and I have suffered terribly bc of her lies & her mind games.
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Patti Zelenack
7 years ago
The abuse is real!
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Anonymous
7 years ago
Psychological abuse should be illegal. Absolutely, often in narcissistic abuse, the patterns of psychological abuse are stark and IT IS TIME to place some boundaries on these individuals, the way we place boundaries on pedophiles. It’s time.
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Brian Blankenship
7 years ago
Coming to terms with the fact that my wife of 8 years.. My best friend.. The love of my life.. The mother of our two boys ages 6 & 7 never loved me.
Learning that I was intentionally being abused.. Understanding that I was intentionally being abused.. And finally.. Accepting that I was intentionally being abused is the hardest thing I have ever "undeservingly" had to endure.
The fact that she knew what she was doing.
That she made a "conscience" decision to Verbally Attack.. Physically Assault.. Psychologically Manipulate and Emotionally Abuse Me.. Someone.. Anyone should be criminal!
She knew going into our marriage that she was going to destroy it.. To destroy me.
Instead of seeking help from a professional.
Instead of being honest and explaining to me so WE can see help from from professional.
Instead of being honest and explaining to me.. Instead of saying "I Do"..
She made a "CONSCIENCE" decision to marry me.. To have two beautiful boys with me..
ALL THE WHILE KNOWING THAT I WOULD BE SAVAGELY DISCARDED WHEN THE TIME WAS RIGHT FOR HER..
CONCEALING OUR TWO BOYS FROM ME.. WHICH HAS NOW BEEN A YEAR 2 MARCH 2019.
These are pre-meditative and consciencely aware decisions that She made.
Forget about the devastaion I have been forced suffer.
But don't forget about the devestation my boys ages 6 & 7 a being forced to suffer
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Luke Dahl
7 years ago
Agreed!
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Donna Martin
7 years ago
Trying to survive having been married to a covert narcissist for 10+ years.
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Caroline Swagemakers
7 years ago
Society needs to become rapidly aware what devastating damage narcissistic abuse really causes. Narcissism is becoming epidemic and getting completely out of hand and leaving a trail of disaster every single time whereby the narcissists seem to be getting away with all this devastation they caused. It has to be stopped by law all over the world.
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Anonymous
7 years ago
This is real, please put a stop to the horrendous abusive epidemic. Mine was possessive and physically abusive. (Strangulation) but oh so loving and charming... just sick mind games. This is serious, please pay attention. When you leave you are stalked and harassed to no end.
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Rebecca Elaine Loving
7 years ago
Though it may need some altering to define what the true crime is here, I do agree something could be done and that these people do exist and they do traumatize people, relentlessly. It is somewhere in between harrassmemt, stalking and conning, I believe.
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Anonymous
7 years ago
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Anonymous
7 years ago
They have to be stopped.
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Lynda Onwunali
7 years ago
I hereby give my full consent and support for the Lilith Law to be effective.
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Carol Lane
7 years ago
I am going through a smear campaign right now. I live in an apartment bldg, where everyone thinks I am a horrible person, thanks to a relationship I had with a narcissist. I’m barely making it day by day.
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Teresa A Rudolph
7 years ago
I've heard it said that people only change their behaviors when the costs outweigh the benefits. The trouble with narcissists is that their behaviors cost others a great deal but don't appear to cost them anything, and so they continue to hurt more and more people, telling themselves and others that it is the ones whom they have hurt who are the problem. They need to be made to realize that their behavior is NOT acceptable. They need to be made to stop doing what they are doing and get the help they need. Everyone, including the narcissists themselves, will be better off for it.
The abuse that narcissists dish out to their victims not only causes emotional distress, it can also result in medical problems. I've seen this happen with me, and others too. It really needs to stop.
Coercive control, emotional abuse and psychological abuse in intimate relationships needs to be made a crime, it already is in some countries, as part of domestic violence law. These con-artists and fraudsters cause immeasurable damage, they need to be recognised and reprimanded.
You have my support! Something needs to be done!
So much damage has been done!
Its a tragic relationship to say the least
I am a victim, went through hell, lost a child to suicide, have C-PTSD, due to narcissistic abuse. There currently is little-to-no common knowledge of the damages done to a victim of narcissistic abuse, much less help in the legal system for victims.
my malignant narcissistic mother pushed my brother to suicide...and I have suffered terribly bc of her lies & her mind games.
The abuse is real!
Psychological abuse should be illegal. Absolutely, often in narcissistic abuse, the patterns of psychological abuse are stark and IT IS TIME to place some boundaries on these individuals, the way we place boundaries on pedophiles. It’s time.
Coming to terms with the fact that my wife of 8 years.. My best friend.. The love of my life.. The mother of our two boys ages 6 & 7 never loved me. Learning that I was intentionally being abused.. Understanding that I was intentionally being abused.. And finally.. Accepting that I was intentionally being abused is the hardest thing I have ever "undeservingly" had to endure. The fact that she knew what she was doing. That she made a "conscience" decision to Verbally Attack.. Physically Assault.. Psychologically Manipulate and Emotionally Abuse Me.. Someone.. Anyone should be criminal! She knew going into our marriage that she was going to destroy it.. To destroy me. Instead of seeking help from a professional. Instead of being honest and explaining to me so WE can see help from from professional. Instead of being honest and explaining to me.. Instead of saying "I Do".. She made a "CONSCIENCE" decision to marry me.. To have two beautiful boys with me.. ALL THE WHILE KNOWING THAT I WOULD BE SAVAGELY DISCARDED WHEN THE TIME WAS RIGHT FOR HER.. CONCEALING OUR TWO BOYS FROM ME.. WHICH HAS NOW BEEN A YEAR 2 MARCH 2019. These are pre-meditative and consciencely aware decisions that She made. Forget about the devastaion I have been forced suffer. But don't forget about the devestation my boys ages 6 & 7 a being forced to suffer
Agreed!
Trying to survive having been married to a covert narcissist for 10+ years.
Society needs to become rapidly aware what devastating damage narcissistic abuse really causes. Narcissism is becoming epidemic and getting completely out of hand and leaving a trail of disaster every single time whereby the narcissists seem to be getting away with all this devastation they caused. It has to be stopped by law all over the world.
This is real, please put a stop to the horrendous abusive epidemic. Mine was possessive and physically abusive. (Strangulation) but oh so loving and charming... just sick mind games. This is serious, please pay attention. When you leave you are stalked and harassed to no end.
Though it may need some altering to define what the true crime is here, I do agree something could be done and that these people do exist and they do traumatize people, relentlessly. It is somewhere in between harrassmemt, stalking and conning, I believe.
They have to be stopped.
I hereby give my full consent and support for the Lilith Law to be effective.
I am going through a smear campaign right now. I live in an apartment bldg, where everyone thinks I am a horrible person, thanks to a relationship I had with a narcissist. I’m barely making it day by day.
I've heard it said that people only change their behaviors when the costs outweigh the benefits. The trouble with narcissists is that their behaviors cost others a great deal but don't appear to cost them anything, and so they continue to hurt more and more people, telling themselves and others that it is the ones whom they have hurt who are the problem. They need to be made to realize that their behavior is NOT acceptable. They need to be made to stop doing what they are doing and get the help they need. Everyone, including the narcissists themselves, will be better off for it. The abuse that narcissists dish out to their victims not only causes emotional distress, it can also result in medical problems. I've seen this happen with me, and others too. It really needs to stop.
Good!