Thanks for sharing Sharman. People really have no idea how powerful this experience is and how much and how many people get hurt. We DEFINITELLY need to remove the children while the fight is going on and allow them to have peace, normalcy and stability. Thank you for sharing this!
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Tee Walker
6 years ago
It's insane! Many people have no idea how bad this is and can get. And the courts won't give weight to the person without representation or cheap attorneys as most victims seldom have the ability to gain good representation. I hope things improve. We need to keep getting more attention to this. Best of luck to you and I hope you gain your independence, freedom, and peace soon.
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Tee Walker
6 years ago
Good Luck J! Please empower yourself and I hope you're able to set yourself free from this. If you read what I wrote Kittie above, you'll see that freedom won't come with a lot of pain and high price so if possible, try to get financially stable, save every penny you can but it will be worth it! I am praying for you and your freedom soon enough. :)
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Tee Walker
6 years ago
Amen! We need to get those that have witnessed these behaviors to also help push for this, as they may not have suffered but doesn't mean that couldn't come to their children, etc. We need to reach out to all good people around us and ask for their support to stop this abuse! Kids pay even higher prices!
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Tee Walker
6 years ago
Brooke, please read what I wrote to Kittie. This is not going to get any better. You need to prepare and strengthen yourself if you want any chance of happiness and independence in life. Remember, you are also setting an example for your kids. If you don't want to have them mentally ill from this environment, please do your best to save some money, get a job and slowly prepare to get yourself out of it. But you have to know it's going to be an ugly fight. If not prepared, the amount of pain you've seen will be small compared to what you'll encounter but once it's over and you've been freed, you will be so grateful!! Best of luck to you!
T
Tee Walker
6 years ago
Congratulations, Thomas! This abuse happens to both sexes and I pray you continue to strengthen and help others learn that they are worth fighting and getting out of that situation. :)
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Tee Walker
6 years ago
Amen!!
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Tee Walker
6 years ago
Kittie and all in this situation: PLEASE LISTEN!!! If you are in a situation like this, without empowering yourselves, learning a trade - even if online, getting a job - even if part time, this fight will not be easy and if you have a real deal narcissist in your home and do not have financial means to help support yourself and your families the courts will believe the "story" they have their attorneys sell the and get things their way. I had preached this to my sister for about 7-8 yrs. She has had everything go against her because the narcissist "show" makes anyone think he is the victim and without finances in order, she initially did not have representation. I respect that this is not easy and he will do everything to remove your power, remove your ability to be independent but you must fight and try to find a way to bring in income, even if working from home, driving uber/lyft/etc. and/or selling online. Without having some money saved your fight will be beyond what you've ever thought possible. Praying for you and your family.
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Sharman Leedom
6 years ago
I was married to a narcissist for 20 years, there was extreme emotional & financial abuse during
this time. The worst part is, that my daughter is now a covert narcissist with two young boy's! I divorced my abuser & my daughter who is narcissistic is divorcing her husband. The courts are Not looking at the long term affects on the children. I have seen the abuse first hand! So, what happens? The narcissistic personality disorder is learned by the children & this horrific mental disorder is passed from generation to generation!! STOP this ABUSE. Recognize this for what it is, pass laws, get the children OUT of these homes!!!!
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Sheila
6 years ago
Psychopathy should bbe included. Men will use this against tje.mother of.their children "She's a narcissist!" My wealthy mwsicql.epctpr.troed.this. He tried claiming alienation. Infidelity should be removed lest we.women want to.be set back fifty years. We don't own the men's bodies nor do they own ours. It is the direct harm they do tjat they need.to be held accountable for - the entitlement. Hatred of their children. Our case ia online: Maine. He is NEVER allowed to see his children again. Check out Edward J. Harshman MD's disgusting pro-pedopjilia books! His book on grooming a woman to pretend she is 3 years old - so he can pretend to be 3 years old which he deems the sexiest age! It is always about $. He constantly "borrowed" his children's gift money & when we divorced he hid my daughters's $6 million trust fund so they cannot have their
schooling paid for. He was born in 1955. All of his education & his siblings was paid for. He is still supported by trust funds yet left me with $350K worth of debt. Everything was a lie & scorched earth. He willfully canceled a $5K life insurance policy & chose to go to jail rather than provide for us because he didn't want me to get all of thay $ if he died.
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Julie
6 years ago
Thank you.
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Shay Wilson
6 years ago
This needs to be implemented... my local police wouldn’t handle him when he broke in to my house because with a restraining order “it’s a civil matter”; told to get a CPO then because I was in middle of divorce they wouldn’t do because “too much paperwork”.
These men/women are slick, manipulative, know how to work the system and they need to be held accountable...please!!!
K
Kittie Morton
6 years ago
VICTIUM OF THIS ABUSE FIRST FROM MOTHER, SPOUSES NOW TWO CHILDREN! HELP!
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Ericka Beltran
6 years ago
Being able to take a narcissistic domestic partner to court for reparations would help so many that fled with empty pockets just to escape the turmoil this type of person causes.
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Thomas Paul
6 years ago
I’m an abusive survivor. May God bless us during these in trials. In Jesus Christ’s name we pray, amen.
J
J Moore
6 years ago
I am a victim and so happy that you are giving hope to so many of us
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Tammara Carrara
6 years ago
It is imperative that this petition is put into law to protect decent hard working parents and children from the devastating effects of abuse which are largely unseen but enormously life shattering.
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Brooke
6 years ago
I’ve been trying to dig myself out of his narcissistic abuse for over 8 years now.
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Deborah Aiston
6 years ago
As a victim of malignant narcissitic abuse to me and my children, by a narcissitic cop, I am signing this petition in all sincerity that the law will change. The devastation from this type abuse affects spouses and their childt=ren with irreparable damage most of the time.
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Tracy McKittrick
6 years ago
Raise awareness and understanding as nobody believes people and they fool so many.
Thanks for sharing Sharman. People really have no idea how powerful this experience is and how much and how many people get hurt. We DEFINITELLY need to remove the children while the fight is going on and allow them to have peace, normalcy and stability. Thank you for sharing this!
It's insane! Many people have no idea how bad this is and can get. And the courts won't give weight to the person without representation or cheap attorneys as most victims seldom have the ability to gain good representation. I hope things improve. We need to keep getting more attention to this. Best of luck to you and I hope you gain your independence, freedom, and peace soon.
Good Luck J! Please empower yourself and I hope you're able to set yourself free from this. If you read what I wrote Kittie above, you'll see that freedom won't come with a lot of pain and high price so if possible, try to get financially stable, save every penny you can but it will be worth it! I am praying for you and your freedom soon enough. :) Tee
Amen! We need to get those that have witnessed these behaviors to also help push for this, as they may not have suffered but doesn't mean that couldn't come to their children, etc. We need to reach out to all good people around us and ask for their support to stop this abuse! Kids pay even higher prices!
Brooke, please read what I wrote to Kittie. This is not going to get any better. You need to prepare and strengthen yourself if you want any chance of happiness and independence in life. Remember, you are also setting an example for your kids. If you don't want to have them mentally ill from this environment, please do your best to save some money, get a job and slowly prepare to get yourself out of it. But you have to know it's going to be an ugly fight. If not prepared, the amount of pain you've seen will be small compared to what you'll encounter but once it's over and you've been freed, you will be so grateful!! Best of luck to you!
Congratulations, Thomas! This abuse happens to both sexes and I pray you continue to strengthen and help others learn that they are worth fighting and getting out of that situation. :)
Amen!!
Kittie and all in this situation: PLEASE LISTEN!!! If you are in a situation like this, without empowering yourselves, learning a trade - even if online, getting a job - even if part time, this fight will not be easy and if you have a real deal narcissist in your home and do not have financial means to help support yourself and your families the courts will believe the "story" they have their attorneys sell the and get things their way. I had preached this to my sister for about 7-8 yrs. She has had everything go against her because the narcissist "show" makes anyone think he is the victim and without finances in order, she initially did not have representation. I respect that this is not easy and he will do everything to remove your power, remove your ability to be independent but you must fight and try to find a way to bring in income, even if working from home, driving uber/lyft/etc. and/or selling online. Without having some money saved your fight will be beyond what you've ever thought possible. Praying for you and your family.
I was married to a narcissist for 20 years, there was extreme emotional & financial abuse during this time. The worst part is, that my daughter is now a covert narcissist with two young boy's! I divorced my abuser & my daughter who is narcissistic is divorcing her husband. The courts are Not looking at the long term affects on the children. I have seen the abuse first hand! So, what happens? The narcissistic personality disorder is learned by the children & this horrific mental disorder is passed from generation to generation!! STOP this ABUSE. Recognize this for what it is, pass laws, get the children OUT of these homes!!!!
Psychopathy should bbe included. Men will use this against tje.mother of.their children "She's a narcissist!" My wealthy mwsicql.epctpr.troed.this. He tried claiming alienation. Infidelity should be removed lest we.women want to.be set back fifty years. We don't own the men's bodies nor do they own ours. It is the direct harm they do tjat they need.to be held accountable for - the entitlement. Hatred of their children. Our case ia online: Maine. He is NEVER allowed to see his children again. Check out Edward J. Harshman MD's disgusting pro-pedopjilia books! His book on grooming a woman to pretend she is 3 years old - so he can pretend to be 3 years old which he deems the sexiest age! It is always about $. He constantly "borrowed" his children's gift money & when we divorced he hid my daughters's $6 million trust fund so they cannot have their schooling paid for. He was born in 1955. All of his education & his siblings was paid for. He is still supported by trust funds yet left me with $350K worth of debt. Everything was a lie & scorched earth. He willfully canceled a $5K life insurance policy & chose to go to jail rather than provide for us because he didn't want me to get all of thay $ if he died.
Thank you.
This needs to be implemented... my local police wouldn’t handle him when he broke in to my house because with a restraining order “it’s a civil matter”; told to get a CPO then because I was in middle of divorce they wouldn’t do because “too much paperwork”. These men/women are slick, manipulative, know how to work the system and they need to be held accountable...please!!!
VICTIUM OF THIS ABUSE FIRST FROM MOTHER, SPOUSES NOW TWO CHILDREN! HELP!
Being able to take a narcissistic domestic partner to court for reparations would help so many that fled with empty pockets just to escape the turmoil this type of person causes.
I’m an abusive survivor. May God bless us during these in trials. In Jesus Christ’s name we pray, amen.
I am a victim and so happy that you are giving hope to so many of us
It is imperative that this petition is put into law to protect decent hard working parents and children from the devastating effects of abuse which are largely unseen but enormously life shattering.
I’ve been trying to dig myself out of his narcissistic abuse for over 8 years now.
As a victim of malignant narcissitic abuse to me and my children, by a narcissitic cop, I am signing this petition in all sincerity that the law will change. The devastation from this type abuse affects spouses and their childt=ren with irreparable damage most of the time.
Raise awareness and understanding as nobody believes people and they fool so many.