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"LILITH'S LAW"

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Anonymous
6 years ago

I work with survivors of narcissistic abuse as a certified coach. The psychological abuse they have endured is long-lasting and results in debilitating symptoms such as, Complex PTSD, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, anxiety, panic attacks, depression or they even become so high functioning as a coping mechanism that they don’t see how they are in a severe Burnout and working too much and too hard. Their relationships are often just repeating the same cycles over and over again and they’re in a permanent mental abuse pattern. It takes years upon years to undo the financial damage and costs of narcissistic abuse as well as years upon years to unlearn and decondition the mind against the trauma-bond created by their abuser. Not enough therapists, law enforcement, court personnel, politicians, and medical personnel understand the depths of the damage these abusers do. Signing this petition into law would be such a healthy step in the right direction to get the message out their about narcissistic parents, family members, spouses, siblings, partners and bosses.

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Julie Ann
6 years ago

Please Make It A Law, I’ve Been An Independent Person My Entire Life Until These Past Five Years With My Husband Whom Is Now Gone However Has Left Me In An Indescribable Frame Of Mind Emotionally Mentally And Physically- Not To Mention Financially Drained And Unable To Function For Over Two Years

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Afton Miksch
6 years ago

People need to be made more aware of NPD and how serious and detrimental it is to the victim and their children/ family. In all aspects...physically, mentally, emotionally, psychologically, financially, etc.. Especially the children involved in these situations. Its absolutely horrible!

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Amber
6 years ago

About time we stand up.

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Jean-paul Labrecque
6 years ago

Thank you.

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Jeff
6 years ago

Someone I love very dearly was subjected to hell from her Mother ( narsisist)

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Tracy Red
6 years ago

I dated a narcasist who was completely destructive in mine and many other women’s lives. My kids have been affected as have I. I’d love to be able to warn others of this mans actions and his outcomes of financial gain he’s got from many women he’s dated. One lady took her own life due to his actions, but this could never be proved. He travels up and down UK finding victims, he needs stopping before SOMEONE else takes their lives. I’ve been away from him for 3 yrs and now provide support to victim of NPD. More awareness and actions must be taken to prevent these people continuing.

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kathy cairns
6 years ago

I have been tortured by my ex for 12 yrs since divorce. I have tried to get justice though the court, it is ignored even though it was court ordered, there is no enforcement. He is slowly killing me with stress, fear, frustration.

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Bobby Fox
6 years ago

Very real! No joke!!! It’s a life altering crime, which can’t be undone!

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Pertesia Gadson
6 years ago

These people will make a mother and infant homeless at birth. It happened to me. Mental institutions which harbored these people should have never been closed.

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Barbara J Burnette
6 years ago

I am signing this due to narcissistic abuse relationships ranging from my father to my Mother and me, to past boyfriend to my current narcissistic sister who openly admits to bullying my Mother into making her power of attorney so that she may manipulate threaten and treat others with cruelty; mostly my Mother's aides. She has exhaused so many aides that in a very small town it has gotten very difficult to find others who will work with her. It has gotten to the point of her neighbor, who she manipulates getting people in nail salons to stay with my Mother. No one knows anything about some of these people. I am not interested in being Power of attorney because she does go through all of the insurance papers. That alone I don't want to do. But I do love my Mother and want to help. She will not let me help with anything but spreads lies to others that I don't and that I don't visit her as I should. When I visit at holiday, she and my other sister (another one she manipulates) shower me with insults and put downs so much that I don't care to be around. Then she spreads lies that I do not visit my Mother as I should. When I mention the insults and put downs, she states that I am sensitive. One would think that if they know a person is sensitive they would not speak words of hurt to them. But this is the evil of a narcissist. It took a while for this to get that some people actually enjoy hurting others. She does things that others may not know about so that it doesn't make HER look bad. But twist it to make me the culprit. Now, I am afraid to spend the night when I visit my Mother. I am afraid she may do something (illegal) and say that I did it. These people are dangerous! Please help us.

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Nicole Miller
6 years ago

These Insidious scumbags need to be punished for the damage that they cause to their innocent victims who's only mistake was loving a complete monster. They creep into these poor unsuspecting people's lives, they sell them a facade make them fall in love with somebody that's not even real, wait until the attachment is so deep and slowly condition them to except they're disgusting Behavior so that they can manipulate, isolate, intimidate, and completely violate that person until there is nothing left but a shell of who that person used to be. And when they can no longer use that person or that person finally sees what they really are they disgard them like a piece of trash. I know it's hard for you to understand if you have never been through it. Its still hard for me to wrap my brain around the fact that there really are people in this world who are that evil, but I have been through it drug through hell and back for 12.5 years. I sacrificed everything in ther name of love and to save my marriage only to be broadsided by the truth that the man who I loved with my whole heart and was loyal to a fault to was the same man who almost cost me my life. They truly are the wolf in sheep's clothing. I still struggle with employment, I was a nurse I had a career I had friends and family I had it all. I can't even be in a crowded store anymore without having a panic attack. It is almost too much for me to just get out of bed most days. And he is living it up in Florida with his newest victim... I am 37 yrs old, living back with my mother because I can't even get an apartment with my credit. The pain in knowing that he doesn't have a care in the world sitting on the beach somewhere while I struggle to find the words to tell my daughter why I can't get her braces yet or my son why he can't have the car he wanted is excruciating. I'm left to clean up the wreckage myself and he walks away clean. I would have rather him physically killed me then to sit here feeling like I'm

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Kathy Mcknight
6 years ago

I have been a 22 year long victim of narcissistic abuse. I have left with cPTSD, severe depression, loss of career, loss of family and support, and even now he is suggesting that doctor assisted suicide is possible.

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Nicole Pierce
6 years ago

This HAS TO be put into place. There are far too many of us that afte left with cleaning up the wreckage by ourselves. We finally got the courage to leave and are faced with the realization that the world has moved on without using that time that we spent silent and isolated. We are left as a shell of who we used to be. We are emotionally, mentally, financially and spiritually bankrupt. I spent 13 years with my narcissistic husband and it's a paralyzing pain after finding out the truth. You're left grieving someone who is still alive and well that has moved on like you are yesterday's trash without a care in the world. Its insidious and needs to end.

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Frederick mease
6 years ago

Excellent , reparations for abused lives. narcissism should be a punishable crime which reparations going to their victims, for the criminal acts of destroying lives. a narcissistic person found guilty of abuse should be criminally charged and the voices that are silenced should be heard. Those that have no voice because of fear may one day have a voice against these monsters.

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Lisa Campbell
6 years ago

An important issue.

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Delaine Stauring
6 years ago

I am signing this petition because my daughter lived with a narcissist for almost 20 years and we didn't even realize it until the damage was already done. He threw her and her three kids out of their home without a care. He lied and connived and is still trying to ruin her and has tried taking kids away and never leaves her alone. The court system is a joke...the first judge they saw let him stay in the house! It's an ongoing nightmare! My oldest granddaughter is also paying the price.

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Anonymous
6 years ago

This will definitely bring more awareness & provide legal support for true sufferers & survivors of pathologically (covert) narcissistic abuse.

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Karla Werner
6 years ago

NPD’s are destructive and need punishment for their abuse!!

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Tiashawnta Brewer
6 years ago

I'm very tired of the abuse. My own family can't cope with it any longer. I have 3 small children under the age of 8. One of my children wants to kill himself because of the narc behavior, and it is our neighbor. We can't even move from them!!! Help us please.