I've had my three grandchildren since they were practically born....unfortunately the father is my son who has never done anything for them...the mother just wants them for $$ reasons...if the judge reads both there records and sees that they have never done anything for them I'm sure he will agree that they are better off with me...the mother married someone that is the same type of person both parents are..I pray to God that I can keep my grandchildren safe and sound the way they have been all this time!