Fathers Who Pay Child Support Yet Have No Rights To Their Own Children.
Many Fathers Pay Willingly For Their Children,Some Are Forced To, Some Pay Child Support And Don't Mind But Many Times The System Goes By Gross income instead of By Your Budget,We All Have one. The Worst Part Of it All is even if their forced or do it willingly they still have no rights to their own children,Many Times Their budget Changes And They Have To Pay To Adjust Which is A Problem if they lose their jobs in This Bad economy,While it is true Mothers need help,Some Are Just Awful And Take advantage And even lie to the system making things harder for the good men who try their best.Even when mothers need help it was a split decision or their choice to have the child in the end,not the man but both knew the consequences of unprotected sex,but also mistakes happen.many men still choose to provide the best they can but In The End A Man has no say in what goes on regarding keeping or losing the child and has to endure even being forced to being homeless or have nothing because they base on gross and not net or keep Their Bills in mind.Even worse even if they pay a lot of money they can't even claim on their taxes yet the mother can and some even owe from the little taxes they get because the mother may have lied and said they owe or never paid anything and with no proof a Man is helpless.This in the end hurts the man but will also hurt the child if the man loses everything he worked hard for he can't better himself,Some woman are so malicious that they are oblivious to this factor.After all this because he couldn't afford a lawyer or the mother is favored in court which is usually the case he can't even afford to fight for custody and like me see's his child when the mother says and thats once a yr. if he's lucky,I am not one of those lucky people always,Not even a phone call on holidays or special occasions,all because the woman was awarded the power of say,a malicious woman will keep the child from the father or use the kids against him and it's a pain no one should endure if you truly love your child or children like I do,Help out with this and tell the system to re-evaluate how they do things and always be sure unless they pose a threat to have the child spend at least a weekend a month or even every other month so we don't have more kids growing up shattered mentally or emotionally,both parents are important to the child and a child needs both parents to grow up the best they can be,especially if both are good parents just one has more power over the other, help by signing and having other people sign for justice,tell the people who matter child support should go by net and budget, gross makes no sense when it's not even taxed yet,help fathers who adore their kids to have some say so if not equal rights,and most importantly force the system to force the mothers to let the child be with the father at least one weekend a month if not down the middle,many can't afford lawyers to get this and it effects the child the most in the end,and also if they can't claim their child have the government make a new thing on taxes where the father can at least co-claim the child if not claim fully because what malicious person is really going to sign a paper to let the father claim even a bit,the system does not see it as claimable because the father is supposed to pay yet the parent who has full custody can even if they pay little to none on the child.The scales have to be balanced,and we have to get to the root of the problem incase the system is not as just as it should be.Protect the mothers rights and fathers but most importantly the child.Many good parents suffer this even woman,but mostly men get this treatment as if where all monsters who don't want to pay or love our children, where not asking to change everything,but just balance the scales and not have a good father lose everything he is working for, especially his child or children,change starts with one person but will never be accomplished if others don't help,even if your not a parent,you may be one day,and if you never become one or want to be one just be fair,don't you think the system should be fair?that's all Im asking for(Equality),please sign and help the problem instead of adding to it,your help is greatly appreciated,and the kids will appreciate it the most later.
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