Currently boys have to be 21 years of age for them not to have their parents consent for marriage and 18 years for girls. I would like for South African's to stand together and ask government to change this, girls should also be 21 years of age. Let me tell you why I decided on this: in Jan 2014 my daughter turned 18, two months later she ran away with a 31 yr old man and married him in Sept 2014. We, as her parents are not allowed to have any contact with her (this is presumably a demand from her husband). Less than two weeks ago she called and told me he hit her - but she stays. (This is a shortened version) And legally there is nothing we can do about it. So if you have a girl child, lets protect them as much as we can. Many thanks to all of you who have the courage to put their signature to this!
Abuse is abuse no matter the age of the perpetrator, whilst i agree on the concept, if he married a 21 year old he would have done the same with the same results sadly. I understand a mother wanting to protect her child and i wish we had stricter laws around domestic violence..........
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beverly
11 years ago
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I have a daughter and I support this...I want my daughter to marry the right guy..
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Aphiwe Honono
11 years ago
I'm down with this.
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Amina Boomgaard
11 years ago
I am against children having to get married, all over the world! Please stop children from getting married to adult men! It is a disgrace!
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Kim Peeters
11 years ago
Girls should get more legal support!
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Amina Boomgaard
11 years ago
I am against children having to get married!
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Ronald Phiri
11 years ago
Increase the consent age to 21
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Ronald Phiri
11 years ago
Increase the consent age to 21
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Currently boys have to be 21 years of age for them not to have their parents consent for marriage and 18 years for girls. I would like for South African's to stand together and ask government to change this, girls should also be 21 years of age. Let me tell you why I decided on this: in Jan 2014 my daughter turned 18, two months later she ran away with a 31 yr old man and married him in Sept 2014. We, as her parents are not allowed to have any contact with her (this is presumably a demand from her husband). Less than two weeks ago she called and told me he hit her - but she stays. (This is a shortened version) And legally there is nothing we can do about it. So if you have a girl child, lets protect them as much as we can. Many thanks to all of you who have the courage to put their signature to this!
Abuse is abuse no matter the age of the perpetrator, whilst i agree on the concept, if he married a 21 year old he would have done the same with the same results sadly. I understand a mother wanting to protect her child and i wish we had stricter laws around domestic violence..........
B
beverly
11 years ago
Featured
I have a daughter and I support this...I want my daughter to marry the right guy..
A
Aphiwe Honono
11 years ago
I'm down with this.
A
Amina Boomgaard
11 years ago
I am against children having to get married, all over the world! Please stop children from getting married to adult men! It is a disgrace!
Abuse is abuse no matter the age of the perpetrator, whilst i agree on the concept, if he married a 21 year old he would have done the same with the same results sadly. I understand a mother wanting to protect her child and i wish we had stricter laws around domestic violence..........