Hello fellow Americans. I here in a humble state right now hoping anyone out there understands and could actually feel what Im going through. Im a young father 27 years young and my son is 5. I've been in my son's life since before he was born. Even taking pictures of him while he entered this world. Provided for him, a loving father to him and helped him, just all around good man in his life. My son's mother wants more then that. She wants to be with me and we become a great family together. The thing is, she's not the one for me. So she uses my son as a pawn shop. She uses him against me. And I hear asking for help. Im not going to let her actions affect my relationship with my son but it's hard dealing with a scorn woman. She barely lets me see my son, never has he stayed with me by himself and Im just tired of it. Im in the beginning stage of joint custody and I just need advice and courage.