I am a new catholic. I was just baptized and confirmed last Easter Vigil. The RCIA class was so developed and filled me with desire to become more in every way to do God's will and unite with him in the sacraments. The Priest however told me a lie and destroyed my relationship in the church community and I find myself adrift. I wanted to marry my fiancé sponsor this month on June 7th 2013. The Priest told me "it would be fine". He would get a "Pauline pardon" for my annulment two months before the set date. We planned the wedding and sent out invitations and 48 hours before the wedding he called and told me the wedding must be postponed. I was crushed. It was a horrible financial burden. I did not have time to notify hardly anyone. I was married by a Lutheran minister because I had quit my job, and had no insurance or income. My husband and I are very unhappy that we did not have a sacramental marriage. We could have planned things very differently if the priest had been honest. He could have told us to wait or that the date could not be planned in the Catholic church. We are rejected now by the church and our family. We need a sacramental blessing on our marriage. Our children are very upset. We have no idea how to get one now and are adrift and praying for a miracle.