isn't time we change how child support is done? if u look at how many women and men use the courts to get child support just to hurt the other or hurt the child . children are being forced to watch and listen to the the parent or the guardian who has custody talk bad about their mother or father .yes child support is ok to have butb really are they really going where its suspossed to go and why is it that the state takes so long to give them the payments .this is only making things worst people are killing the mothers or fathers kidnapping the kids or just killing the kids because they r being raped by the system . look at it from what u see on the news or in your homes how the father is loosing his mind because he has to pay for a child he cant see or they wont let him see the child you r only hurting the child or children .we hear that the father doesn't bwant to be in the kids life or the mother doesn't that's because we make it hard for them to see their kids we use the kids to make the other parent mad angry to where they kidnap the child or beat the mom up or worst .we need to stop doing this we need to change the way child support is done .if we care so much about our kids then lets go to child support and ask them to change how its being done lets get the parents involed more if we got the money to see who is on drugs then we have the money to help familys not destroy them