Facebook can be a powerful tool for mothers to maintain a presence in their children's lives, but all to often it ends up being yet another platform for mothers to embarrass their children. The subtleties and nuances of Facebook posting are generally lost on Mothers, leading to conflict and misunderstandings that can lead to shame and painful real life 'unfriendings'. Advance privacy setting and vigilant monitoring is not enough, we need Mothers with adult children off Facebook now.