I want to be the voice of all the women and young ladys that are afraid to stand up for themself. I was a woman in this same matter. But, when I realize that I had a God above, and that he loves everyone things had change. We as women thing that we are the ones that is wrong. No, we don't deserve to be hit on, pushed down, face swollen, eyes close. If we don't take the control of it right now. Than our children is going to grow up thinking that it is alright. Our sons is going to grow up hitting is girlfriend or spouse cause that's what he seen daddy do. Our daughters are going to grow up thinking that getting abuse is what suppose to happen in a relationship. Now, this is not right. We don't what our kids to grow up with this type of learns. All because this is what happen in there childhood lives. We have to be strong and take back our lives and Live it according to what God has for us and our kids. So, don't be ashame to get help cause, if you or we want and keep putting it off. Then the next time may be to late. Amen!