We have children services comming over tommorrow. they are acuseing me of beating my kids, and the mom of neglecting them. This case worker calls yesterday, and says she has been comming over, and knocking at are door, and no one will answer. They left no messages, or notes on are door. they left no letters in are mailbox. so then this caseworker goes to court, and gets a caseplan signed by a judge, that we must follow or they will remove the kids from are custody. I don't even spank my kids, I might yell at them, from time to time, when they are being bad. We had children services come and take away are kids 7 years back, with same accusations, and we thought they had no right to come into are lives, and tell us what to do, or how to raise are kids. At that time, I had left a small handprint bruise on my oldest son's rear end, when he got a spankin. Well they removed the kids from us, and it took us almost 3 years to get them back, I even had the supervisor working with me, from children services back then, her name was mickey lewis. She told me I had done very well, and I had my case plan done within the first year, I aced everything they threw at me I was court ordered to do. well then they demand a DNA test from me, the father. thats when i found out that my oldest son and daughter were not even my kids. then the caseworker, christina grace tells my oldest 2 kids, that i wasn't there daddy, and they told me I had no legal right to these kids I had taken care of all there lives, and my youngest boy, Ben, is mine, by DNA. They took 3 years before the mother finally got her case plan done, and we were in court to get are kids back, I was to get Ben split custody, and it was supposed to be up to the judge if I would get visatation rights to my oldest 2 kids, because I never once gave up on them. I am the only daddy they ever had. Well the prosecuting attorney had her mind made up, she was not going to split these kids up. and at that current time, Sandy, the kids mommy, was pregnet with her forth kid, meaning at this time she had 4 kids, all 4 kids have different dad's. but sandy, the kids mom, was with this current baby daddy, and they gave all rights over to sandy, the kids mom. Mickey Lewis stuck her neck out for me on the record, court record, that i should at least have visitation, of my son that was mine, after all, I had been there from day one taking care of all 3 kids, and was lead to beleive that these 3 kids were all mine, and there was never any question that they weren't mine. well the judge ordered that I had no rights, and were not given any rights at that time, the kids finnally wen't to there mommy, sandy, after 3 long years that they had been taken away. they even forced my son Ben to call her new boyfriend, his daddy, and Ben was always close to me, and didn't like to call him daddy, and he got a spanken everytime he didn't call him daddy. well, after 6 months go by, the mom calls me up, saying she needs my help with the kids, and allows Ben and rebecca, and jacob, to come visit me, and Ben comes stays all summer breaks and weekends with me. A few years later, sandy and her newest baby daddy, broke up, he left, and took his son, micheal and keeps him. sandy was living out of a motel 40 on west broad street, and she had no one to turn to, to pay her rent for another week, after the third week living out of a hotel, and this by the way was her third evection. well my credit wasn't ruined, so she calls me up 2 years back, and begs be to get a house with her, promises me she will pay 50% of all the bills, splitting everything 50/50. well we been here for 2 years, and she pays about 500.00 a month to me on the utilities, and I pay 700.00 a month on the rent, leaving me flat ass broke, because I am dissabled, and that is all my check pays me every month. she has never gave me the difference, or even paid me back for the difference when she claims all these kids on her tax returns. she spends her intire check on herself, every year, and doesn't even get the kids christmass. my family pays for that, and some help from are church the kids and I attend. well Jacob, the oldest, 15, hates me, will not do anything of what I ask him to do around the house, he won't even mow the lawn here, and breaks all of ben's toys, just because he is jelous of Ben, my son. Rebecca has alot of issue's, always has, I have been taking her to my psycoligist every 2 to 3 weeks, for help for her, and her issue's. One of sandy's- momma's ex boyfriends mollested her, and children services did nothing about that, because they didn't wanna go after sandy's ex, who she was living with at that time, when rebecca was just about 5 years old. They went after me, for leaving a bruise on my kids but, while he was being discliplined for being bad. They tell me later that I raised a red flag when they interviewed me, asking me this question,,, " are you mad when you spank your children" and I said the truth, well i'm not happy, when they are acting out, and i have to discipline them, sure I'm upset while spanking them, who would injoy something like that? I asked.... Well here we are, all these years down the road, I don't even spank my kids because I am afraid to. I tell Sandy, and she does all the diclipine, around this house. and as of last month, Sandy has her 5th kid, by another different daddy, and this daddy isn't around either, so theres another infant in my house, another kid she has me taking to all her doctors apointments, dental apointments, work, etc. Once again, I am getting accused of another case plan, and i have no idea what this one is about. i know children services screwed my kids up in the past, they told my 2 kids i was not there daddy, and i never had any right to discipline them, because back then, the mother never disciplined them. jacob the oldest, won't go to church anymore, want's to be an athiest like his mom, sandy. rebecca want's to be saved, and her and Ben go to church with me still. thank god, all I do anymore is pray for these kids. and there future.... if anyone has ever been wronged by family services/childrens services, please past this to all your friends, and feel free to comment. thank you all. jason bailey