Child Interrupted
Crabapple Crossing has a draconian lunchroom policy which
prohibits the children from speaking while the music is playing. This music
cycles on and off every few minutes. The children are expected to remain quiet
during the music portion. It is an unnatural and unhealthy process in which
they are constantly interrupted in the middle of their conversations. As you
can imagine, this causes a lot of problems. It is not fair to the students or
the lunchroom monitors who are forced to try to prevent the children from
talking. Children are natural learners. Sometimes as adults we obstruct this
process. This music lunchroom policy is one such example. Children learn
through socializing with others. They learn compassion, negotiation, fairness;
just to name a few. Also, with the increasing pressures of school lately due to
more frequent and voluminous tests, assessments, homework, etc., they deserve
and need “down time”. They need time in the day to feel free and unrestrained
and just be kids. But, instead, at CCES they are treated like Pavlov’s dogs.
The music cycling on and off is simply a form a behavior modification and
conditioning. It does not teach them personal responsibility, independence or self control. They just learn to reluctantly obey a misguided rule to avoid
being punished. Those children that challenge the rule spend time at the
“naughty desk” by themselves. Well, it is time that we challenge the rule as
parents and give our kids a voice at CCES. This type of fascist rule has no
place in a free country like America. This is not a military academy or
behavior reform school and the students should not be treated as such. (Remember
the “Silent Halls” debacle).This is a public institution where everyone in the
community should have a voice. Let your voice be heard. Please stand with us as
we ask CCES to “let the children speak” and end this dreadful music lunchroom
policy.
The time has come and the moment is right for the parents to speak up and help shape the school into an even better learning institution.