| # | Name | Comments |
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| 1 | Janice Kashin Benson | An apology was called for by a majority of mothers and adoptees at the conclusion of the The Sixth Australian Conference on Adoption in Brisbane, in 1997. We are still all waiting |
| 2 | Anonymous | Anonymous |
| 3 | Anonymous | Anonymous |
| 4 | kaye hart | |
| 5 | Sue Martin | The Government of the time, didnt seperate the indigenous mothers from us Non-Indigenous mothers, we feel the pain as much as them. Its time actually overtime that We the non-Indigenous mothers got an APOLOGY,but even that will not easy the pain,of having our baby stolen, and left us with empty arms,and broken hearts. |
| 6 | cassandra cooke | I feel we deserve an apology, we have been going through pain from the day this happened as well as our children and the world is appearing to be getting worse not better. Our children hate their birth mother as they do not know the truth and also their lives are a mess as well and all the missd out loved that could have been given to our children has been wasted just because of women who could not have children but decided to take another person to make their life complete. They decided to get their house and set themselves up in life and then take and look down at a mother so they also did not upset their figure as well. They justify this by calling these mothers no good so to try and take the guilt off themselves for stealing others mothers babies. |
| 7 | Lynette Aitken | |
| 8 | Christine Cole | I want an apology not just for myself, but for my daughter and my grandchildren. They need to know that I loved my daughter and wanted to keep her. My daughter needs to know that she was never given away without a backward glance as was the propaganda of the day. I have missed my stolen daughter every day of my life and will until the day I die. I want my grandchildren to know they are cherished and loved and I believe an apology will go along way to letting them know that. What happened to my family must never, ever happen to anyone else again. |
| 9 | alison wright | |
| 10 | Hannah Spanswick | |
| 11 | Margaret Watson | It's time the silent grief we adoptees and birth mothers carry was heard by the rest of the world. |
| 12 | Jennifer Mitrevski | To take a child from their mother and biological family goes against the basic human rights of that child. Ask the child/baby if that is what they want. |
| 13 | Barbara Paradis | |
| 14 | Kasey Paradis | |
| 15 | Jo Fraser | keep up the good work. It's about time those in power had their blindfolds taken away. |
| 16 | Roslyne Sponheimer | |
| 17 | Isabel Jones | |
| 18 | maureen Watson | |
| 19 | Anonymous | Anonymous |
| 20 | Jan Russ | As with our indigenous sisters we mothers.....and our children suffer the agonising pain of loss and separation that time does not dull or heal. |
| 21 | june smith | During the 1950s to 1970s thousands of indigenous mothers, and non-indigenous single mothers were forcibly deprived of their babies and children by Australian government's enactment in social engineering.
There were laws in place, including the United Nations 1959 Declaration of the rights of the child, to protect me and my baby, yet statutory law was breached, duty of care was breached and governments were negligent in their approach to the illegal practices in adoption.
Mothers of one nation and their babies are owed an apology for this cruel era of abuse of women. Yet the Prime Minister has been cruelly discriminatory in his apology to the indigenous mothers and their children by not including the non-indigenous single mothers and their children. |
| 22 | Mary Murray | |
| 23 | Helen Cotter | The whole process has caused me immeasurable heartache and loss. My daughter, myself and my family will forever be changed by this evil practise. |
| 24 | fay cruickshank | |
| 25 | Anonymous | Anonymous |
| 26 | philippa Boldiston | |
| 27 | Anonymous | Anonymous |
| 28 | Lynelle | |
| 29 | Robyn Cohen | I have had 5 years of counselling and been diagnosed with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder and complicated unresolved grief resulting from the actions of staff during my delivery and hospitalisation and the unlawful separation from my baby. |
| 30 | Ann Allpike | |
| 31 | Jan Russ | It is time...... |
| 32 | Barbara Maison | Acknowledgement of the cruel and obscene abuses perpetrated by those in authority who morally?? were there to "help" us: churches and the law - those who coldly and sadistically removed our children from us, stating that we were denying them the right to a "normal, loving two-parent home" during the boom years of adoption, and since - would possibly go some way to ease the hurt and pain we hve suffered and still endure.
But what of the children who did not live that wonderful, happy life we supposedly would have denied them, had we kept them? Those children adopted into unsuitable homes who ended up in state and foster care, those who used drugs, turned to crime, and the many who ended their lives in desperation because they were "not wanted by their mothers"; those same mothers who spent years grieving for their unknown, missing but much-loved child - some who cannot after nearly 50 long years, still cannot know the name or identity of their child here in Victoria.
If such recognition, by way of an apology, is made to all us mothers, and many the fathers who also grieve, I sincerely hope that it is from the heart and not merely a political stunt. |
| 33 | Joanne Dixon | Thanks to a narrow minded government I have a brother I dont know. Give these Women an apology. |
| 34 | Lorraine Heaven | I was found guilty, shamed and shunned for being an "unmarried mother" as if marriage was the only way to have a child. The effect is still with my child and with me. An apology would be nice but it will never make up for the forty years we spent apart. Shame Australia. |
| 35 | Lorraine Heaven | I was found guilty, shamed and shunned for being an "unmarried mother" as if marriage was the only way to have a child. The effect is still with my child and with me. An apology would be nice but it will never make up for the forty years we spent apart. Shame Australia. |
| 36 | Lorraine | This apology to the non-indigenous mothers that had their baby/s taken through Adoption should have been done many many years ago and should have been included with the Apology in February 2008. |
| 37 | Grant Tubb |
| 38 | Jacki Bailey | I was lucky to keep my child, with my parents backing |
| 39 | kate Turner | |
| 40 | Ann Hayes | |
| 41 | Reunite Cards | |
| 42 | Reunite Cards | |
| 43 | Jeanette Broekman | On behalf of my Mother - who died in 2005 with a broken spirit, and on behalf of myself, an adoptee who grew up believing that I was an "unwanted baby" - only to discover I was very much wanted. To discover that I was stolen from my vulnerable, unsupported Mother, who was injected with heroin, pethedine, ergometrine, and phenergan during labor, and that I was resusitated with drugs - is something I still struggle with every single day.
My Mother described the birth as "euphoric and a party atmosphere" - no wonder.
The treatment that my Mother received at the "home" as well as not being told her rights, drugged to the extreme, and sent home to pretend she never had a baby caused her trauma that she took to her death, as will I. |
| 44 | Kerry Schippers | When my child was taken I lost not only her,I lost my self as well. It has taken me 42 years of diligent painstaking work to regain my sense self and 15 years of patience to gain the confidence of my daughter. What was done to both of us is a stain on society that needs to be addressed. I want an apology and a heart felt one at that. |
| 45 | Barbara Paradis | |
| 46 | Kasey Paradis | |
| 47 | Maria Vint | As an adoptee I am reaching to the other side of the world as I live in New York. My sisters everywhere are in a dilemma of stigmatization for having had children out of wedlock and having their babies stolen. I appeal in solidarity for an apology to all the mothers who had their babies taken without reason or rhyme. |
| 48 | Bev Colasimone MacDonald |
| 49 | Celeste Billhartz | Do the right thing!! |
| 50 | Darlyne Lounsbury | Shame, shame on the Government of Australia.
Do the right thing and apologize! |